rastamoose Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 What is the deal with this? I was dumped 3 months ago, we went out for half a year. I would say that I am almost there, in terms of being over her. There is this one strange thing that happens.... When I see my ex around in person I feel so much better after. I don't mean I was happy to see her, it's something different. When I see her I feel like I am not missing much and that she is not the greatest thing ever. Is this because when I don't see her, I build a perfect image of her in my mind? Does my mind lie to me and make her out to be better than she was or is? It's like I feel reassured when I see her, I feel good about everything until my memory of her fades until I next see her. Anyone else have this?
templeofmax Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 WHOA! Good for you. Its been 4 months for me and I think about her all the time, even though I am highly aware of her negatives.
JDPT Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 It's very interesting that you mention this because now that I think about it, I feel the same. In my mind my ex is perfection and when I saw her a few days ago, she looked stunning yes but the feelings weren't quiet there. But when I find myself alone thinking of her she is back to perfection again, it's weird.
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