Layzie1207 Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 the next time i see my ex i want to tell her how much i love her, i know i truly love her, but im having trouble expressing it to her. i was wondering if people in the same situation as me could help me come up with a good definition of true love. i was hoping many people could give input then at the end i could mash it all up and have people who really know what true love is, their definition. ill try and start "true love is the ultimate sacrifice" Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 True love is just loving without fear. The ultimate sacrifice? Anything that's sacrificial is unhealthy. True love doesn't conquer all. True love doesn't always last forever. True love won't solve problems in a relationship. I caution you in your endeavor. Link to post Share on other sites
paradissa1 Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 love is mutual honesty and trust. love is working things day by day love is good communication love is friendship love is desire love is lust love knows no time Link to post Share on other sites
Author Layzie1207 Posted November 8, 2004 Author Share Posted November 8, 2004 btw, critcism is welcome! Link to post Share on other sites
Lonestar Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 True love will never die It can only be delayed Until we meet again Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 true love is something most people have no clue about yet say they truly love someone when they don't. With true love you just don't give up and run away whenever things get a little rocky but sadly, that is what sooooooo many people do. Many people confuse trule love with infatuation. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueLP Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 True love is when you each can read into each others' hearts and minds without a word being spoken. Silences when you can speak calmly through smiling eyes, because you both are wholly accepted. Words would not do it justice. And true love is also being able to speak up and ask in those instances when you screw up and are totally reading the wrong thing Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 "True Love" and i mean truuuuueeeeeeeeee love.....is what you see in my eyes when I look upon... Cheescake. OMG If loving it is wrong I dont want to be right! Link to post Share on other sites
Dakini Posted November 9, 2004 Share Posted November 9, 2004 Layzie: Maybe you were talking about "being in love" etc., and I really can't comment on that as i am trying to figure that one out myself, but "true love" to me means: Loving unconditionally - (to still love while knowing the past and fully accepting the present) Having no expectations - (to still love without receiving love in return) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Layzie1207 Posted November 9, 2004 Author Share Posted November 9, 2004 yes, i know i am in love, most definitely, and i wish it was true love, but in the back of my head i wish that she would give me another chance to show her the person ive become and changed into. and sometimes i think its true love, while other times i have doubts about my own selfishness. i just cant help wanting to be with her because i do love her, and i was a very bad person to her for a long time and i would love nothing more than to redeem myself and be the person that she always dreamed id be, not because she wants it, but because that person is a good person. Link to post Share on other sites
smile Posted November 9, 2004 Share Posted November 9, 2004 For me its about those lazy sunday mornings drinking cofee and watching tv, talking about nothing important . Its like sometimes I feel those moments that were without expectation were the greatest I have ever felt. When the words came so easily and I felt so, conent I guess. People put too much on bad feelings or great feelings. I say if you can feel that easy content feeling with someone hold on to it. It is so underplayed but I think it's because it happens so infrequently. Everyone feels anger and fear and that gooey in love, and lust.. you don't even need an other person for those. But to feel so much yourself while being so with someone else is just extraordinary. Like when you see two old ppl on the porch. He is whittling a stick and she is peeling peas . Not a word is spoken between the two but you can feel they are together. Thats what love is about to me. The rest is just what everyone else expects and judges. It's what they can't judge or tear down or lessen.. thats the true strength of it all. Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted November 9, 2004 Share Posted November 9, 2004 But to feel so much yourself while being so with someone else is just extraordinary. Like when you see two old ppl on the porch. He is whittling a stick and she is peeling peas . Not a word is spoken between the two but you can feel they are together. Thats what love is about to me. The rest is just what everyone else expects and judges. It's what they can't judge or tear down or lessen.. thats the true strength of it all. My eyes teared up...beautiful. Link to post Share on other sites
UnicornGirl Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 true love is acceptance. acceptance of another person and an appreciation for their soul, inner light, core, whatever you want to call it. true love can withstand many things. it may hurt sometimes to hold this love in your heart and for the object of this love to be uncertain as to whether they love you. but you cannot make it die. you can wrap it up and put it in a little box somewhere, and you can force the flurries and happiness out of it, but it is the love that cannot die. Link to post Share on other sites
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