Orije Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Me and the girl I am dating were in a relationship, but we took a break when something happened and she said she wants to start the whole dating process again because she said we seemed to kind of rush things. While dating she has brought up a friend of hers alot who is a guy and she talks abut him sometimes and that is the only friend of hers that I don't really know about. Lately they have been on facebook more and on skype talking. So the other day she had a nightmare and she woke me up and i was there to talk her through it, so i asked if she was talking to her friends about it and she brought up the guy about how he is only awake at night and i asked if they are best friends and she said no that she hates him and he hates her genuinely and that so much has happened between them and she feels bad and she feels more attached to him. Is it wrong of me to feel bad like im not really a jealous person, but this made me queasy, but before i got to ask anything else she asked if we can talk about it another time and changed subject. I know we are dating and we told each other we won't see other people and there is nobody else that we like, but is it alright for me to ask her about this guy more so that I know? I dont want her to think im jealous or im scared he might take her away but i dont know. Should i wait until she brings him up again or just ask her in person. Or am i over thinking things and should just let it go. Help me on this guys.
phineas Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 I got bad news for you bud. "break" means I can screw other guys guilt free in womanese. Someone tells me she needs a "break" I tell her we are broken up & she is my new ex & ex's are ex's for a reason. I also don't talk to my ex's. 3
Star Gazer Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 I got bad news for you bud. "break" means I can screw other guys guilt free in womanese. It means the same thing in "manspeak." Whomever initiated the break often wants to check out other people. 1
Woop1337 Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Why does it matter if she's talking to another guy? She broke up with you. It's over. She's not your girlfriend. If you still want to give it a shot with her, fine. Keep dating her. But I say, let your eyes wander now.
MJGeorgia Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 I agree with everyone else. Why not find someone better? You deserve better.
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