Jamesbond Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Day 20 of NC and I woke up this morning and realised I deserve better and that if any other chick treated me the way she did, I wouldn't take it... Am I moving on or what is going on?
Bill99 Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 You are getting stronger and beginning to move away from the hurt. Good for you. NC is working. Keep it up. Use the anger. It helps. Imagine how much better you will feel in 40 days!
theonlyjuan Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Your starting to realise life goes on, your life shouldn't stop because your ex has gone. You may have a few sad days/moments, they don't last. Don't use them as an excuse to break NC, it doesn't always mean you want them back. If you can, avoid getting tired and run down. That's when I was at my worst.
jesse93 Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Congrats man, I can't wait to be at this point, lol but keep going NC because those feelings could still be there and you're just having a good day today, they might come back and haunt you. Keep up the good work bro.
MarkV Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 This is fantastic. I've been broke up for a month now and I look forward to the day I feel like you as mornings are the toughest. But we'll done again,it shows you are strong
Author Jamesbond Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 Thanks everybody, doing my best. I deleted all her texts and phone number today... big step. 1
supaflyz Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Good job man! I'm glad that you are getting stronger and fighting off the urges to contact your ex. Thanks everybody, doing my best. I deleted all her texts and phone number today... big step.
JDPT Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 As you stated you are coming to the realization that there is better out there. However, be vigilant of your feelings, I'll tell you what occurred to me: Last week I had great days Monday- Wednesday, I thought I was honestly cured and that was the end of my suffering, however, the feelings of sadness and pain came right back and it was back to suffering again. Keep in mind that you will have many ups and downs and to simply embrace those days and accept them. We all go through the grieving process and those feelings came and go until we finally get through them.
Knoxpwns Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 As you stated you are coming to the realization that there is better out there. However, be vigilant of your feelings, I'll tell you what occurred to me: Last week I had great days Monday- Wednesday, I thought I was honestly cured and that was the end of my suffering, however, the feelings of sadness and pain came right back and it was back to suffering again. Keep in mind that you will have many ups and downs and to simply embrace those days and accept them. We all go through the grieving process and those feelings came and go until we finally get through them. Pretty much this. About 3 to 4 weeks after my breakup, I was finally over it. Three days later I hated my life again. It comes and goes.
JDPT Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Pretty much this. About 3 to 4 weeks after my breakup, I was finally over it. Three days later I hated my life again. It comes and goes. I know the feeling trust me.
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