Airforcegirl Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 My ex and I split up almost two yrs ago. We share a 6 yr old son. It was a very nasty divorce. About 6 mos ago we started being friendlier to eachother, and I wrote him a letter, taking responsibility for my actions, and explaining I had made huge changes, for the better, in my life and am happier. He never acknowledged letter, but became friendlier. Recently, he came to me and said he really missed me and would like to start a "FWB" relationship. I declined, saying I had too much self respect, but would like to spend more time with him, and be friends. He agreed and we started spending more time together with our son. This lasted a little over a week. Then I screwed up...I told him I would be ok with a sexual relationship. What can I say? I've been single almost two years! Needs! He replied he felt I was correct in keeping us just friends, and has been avoiding doing things with us since, although he will come in the house and visit when dropping off our son, which he never did before. It was so confusing to me. I felt like I was getting mixed signals. I finally sent him a text " I think you still love me. It's not going to go away...ever.You need to find a better way to handle it, or you will be unhappy". He did not respond, but when I saw him he didn't act different either. I expected him to get a little chilly with me. So, now I just don't know what to do. I love him, I am sure he loves me, but I think he is too scared of getting hurt or what others might think to start over. What do I do next? How do I fix this?
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