Nyclovin Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 And this time I probably got lucky because there were no other guys and pictures just hurt her girlfriend's on recent trips that they took I'm pretty sure that's what these days going to do it and see pictures of her and a new guy and really be freaked out Have to make about no more looking at pictures I deleted her account I deleted all of her friends accounts and I'm blocked them all But some of my friends are still friends with her on Facebook so I borrowed his phone and looked at the pictures and now Wehardt my dreams It was a five-year relationship and I haven't spoken to her 3 1/2 months and it's been the hardest thing ever haven't looked at her pictures online in a few weeks and then I did yesterday and it was so hard.
HumptyDumpty Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Ouch! You already have taken all the necessary steps I encourage everyone to do after a BU and then you fell right into this loophole! But why the heck did you have the phone & fb of your friend? C'mon, you knew that you could stumble across some new infos! And now you're hurt with what you've looked up, wasn't what you expected right? Lick your wounds that's all you can do for now and the next time be wiser! That friends phone has nothing to do in your hands anyways
Author Nyclovin Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 It was sheer curiosity. She killed me by dumping me and hasn't reached out once after a five year live in relationship. I craves a small connection to her and I got it and it was horrible . If I would have seen pics f her and another dude I'm not sure what I would have done but I wouldn't have been good. Funny part is i know that those pics are coming .... Licking my wounds... Getting back on track...
HumptyDumpty Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Yep, curiosity, I know! But thing is, you always have to expect the worst! Expecting the worst, what point is there checking fb to see her in a huge gang-bang! Exaggerating, but you're just not ready to face the worst so leave it be in the time being and focus on yourself
Author Nyclovin Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 You re right , I hope I'm stronger next time. Fb and pain just a few of my addictions. I only ope the gang bang hurt her emotional the next day hen she wakes up and sees herself as a selfish heartless unloyal person Thanks for responding. Needed some support.
avacado Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Before you try that again, listen to me - if you see her with a guy, it is going to hurt worse than anything you'll ever imagine. And not the good "life experience" kind of pain. I'm talking searing, can't stay asleep, anxiety attack, wish you were dead kind of pain. I made the mistake of looking at her profile on my friend's laptop, which was laying about. I had deleted her long ago and apparently she'd hidden her new relationship status to just her friends. Maybe to protect me. In the few hours that I've slept in the past week, I've had dreams that my skin was melting off. You got off lucky. Don't check again. 1
Author Nyclovin Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 Damn! That sounds horrible. I think you scared me straight !
iouaname Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 I have had the urge to check my ex's accounts recently, too, but I just try to fight through it. I know that if I see he is with someone else, it will hurt a lot. Just don't make the mistake again! Simple as that.
hopefulfaerie Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 Oh yes! I made that mistake ONCE!!! Ex bf was with a new girl and they were BOTH in eachother's profile pics. Arms around eachother and all smiles. I almost vomited right on the spot!!! Absolutely horrible!!! Couldn't even sleep. Seriously thought I was going to die of a broken heart and could NOT get images of them making love out of my brain. How sick is that??? Anyone thinking of doing this? For the love of God, DON'T!!!! Instead do the much less painful thing and swallow a bunch of rocks, then glass to puncture your lungs, then stab yourself in the heart with a butter knife. It won't hurt near as much! Obviously kidding! Peace and light be with you everyone!
TrblinMN Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 FB is the worst. I hate it so much that I've deleted my account and might actually have to write FB to permanently delete my account. I've learned my lessons the hard way and I can't unsee what i've seen. I wished I could get those images of my ex and her new fiance out of my mine. Trust me, don't ever do it and look at your ex's FB profile. 1
jesse93 Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 You should ask your friends if they could please remove her from their friends list, I don't see why they would decline unless they are close to her. It is one of the hardest things not to give into curiosity but think about the amount of pain it will put you through when there's a pic of her hugging another guy or something? Don't let curiosity get the best of you because I haven't let the curiosity get to me yet but from what the other people on this thread have said, it hurts like hell when you see something like that, so save yourself the pain and hurt man, nothing good will ever come out of looking at your ex's profile I promise you that. 1
orionboxing Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 I did. It stung...a little. I did check out who was my ex-wife was with after we split. I was still FB friends one of her family members and few photos of them surfaced at a wedding. It was hard to see at first, but the guy looked like a slob, so for whatever reason it didn't hurt as much as I thought it would. I sort of laughed because he looked terrible in a few photos. I rebounded with someone who many thought was prettier than my ex-wife, so I sort of came out feeling OK with everything. My FB page is public, so I'm sure she's seen my new love interest and probably had the same feelings that I did when she told me she was seeing someone.
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