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Should I try calling again? What should I say with out sounding desperate?


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I Found out from a friend that this guy I have a crush on is interested in taking me out. This guy asked my friend to give him my phone number, so I did. (this was Friday Oct. 29th) I got a voicemail message from the guy on Wed. Nov 3rd.) and he wanted to know if I would like to go out sometime.

 

On Thurs. Nov. 4th, I called and left a voicemail message and said yes I would be intrested in going out with him sometime. It is now Sun. Nov. 7th and he hasn't called back. I am reasonably sure he did get my message, because I saw him on Friday and he was smiling a lot (and so was I.) but we didn't talk to each other because he was talking with his coworkers on his lunch break while I was working.

 

My question is, should I try calling him again, and if so what should I say? I thought about just telling him that i wanted to be sure he got my message and didn't think that I was not interested. I'm pretty shy and I think he may be shy also.

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Just give him a call tomorrow and ask if he did get your voicemail message in the first place. He could be just as shy.

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Don't call again. Just wait and give it more time.

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Don't call or call? Uhhh... if you feel like it, go ahead.

 

The thing is, the guy could've called back, but then again you called him a day later after you left him a VM which in my books is bad phone etiquette.

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