Orije Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Hello everyone, to start this off me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for about 3 months now and there have been a few complications which i will discuss and hopefully you guys answer to. So what happened was my girlfriend is the type to always look into my past and check up on all of my exes. I was alright with it, but she began to get into my sex life and for some reason i didnt want her looking at one of my exes cause i totally disliked her after she was an ass to me so i changed up her name so my girlfriend wouldnt look her up. a little bit of time passes and i coudlnt help myself from lying to her so i come out and I tell her everything. She takes it really badly and I understand. She then proceeded that we go on a break and i was like sure we can go on a break. So it has been about a month today since we were on break and me and her are now dating. i dont know if it is wrong, but she started making rules like no kissing, no touching and everything. She told me she loved me, but at times she said she doesn't and I think it's a little too early to know if you love a person. Lately she has been really negative and and harsh to me and i want to see if I am taking it wrong or what? Today i wanted to skype her and she said she couldn't but she was still online so i was like are you already skyping someone and she is like "does that concern you?" that really hurt me alot. We also talked about the break and how to me it isn't really a break up, but she kept saying we aren't in a relationship and that a break mean ultimately breaking up. I said well there is still hope of us being together in time and she was quiet a bit. So i asked if she had something to say and she responded "I don't know". She also over the month said that she isn't sure about her feelings and she doesn't know if we will get back together, but at times she had kissed me. She is away in Dominican Republic for 2 weeks and says how she misses me. I told her not to be so harsh when tlaking about breakng up cause for me i still have alot of feelings but she said "im not being harsh, just stating facts." I really do like her and i feel like she likes me too, but I'm not sure what to do. I was thinking about not talking to her for a bit so she can realize if she really misses me and needs me, but at the same hand I don't want her to let go of me and fall for someone else. Any advice guys?
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