Strange interactions with a new married friend who's a woman, insight needed

[MissingMyHubby]

quick background. have known this married woman for 2 years as less than an acquaintance we are both in our early thirties her husband is 40 and I have a long term girlfriend. the other week she had asked if she could use my truck to haul hey vehicle from her hometown and I would go with her. we exchanged phone numbers and within a day she had sent me a funny text of a picture depicting a sexual tattoo on a lady. I knew she was a wacky woman because of the few times I had spoken to her she said off the wall things so I didn't think much of it. I responded with something similar and it just went from there. I also have an odd sense of humor so I would try to match her style and go beyond 2 maybe some gory stuff. she told me that she sends these things to a handful of other guys as well probably to break up her work day. one of her first texts she indicated she wanted a 3some but her husband needed it to be with another girl. so in my mind that makes me feel like she's talking to me just like a friend almost like gay friend. but then she would come out and say we were of the same DNA because we get each others humor and so I would have a question a little bit her motives but still nothing suggested she was interested in me as more than a friend. Occaaionally she would complain about her husband but it wasn't Constant.* she then confided in me that she would tell me things that she wouldn't tell anyone else. now keep in mind I have only gotten to know her over the last two weeks. one of her texts read this: I know,, pretty cool,,, iv needed a friend that I can relate to. Only wish you were gay so I can pee in front of you. I did that with my last gay bud. We would sleep together too.* but then I would get something like this: Trust me he ( husband) won't shoot you,,, I'm the one you should worry about. JK Or this : Hehe,,, . I hope your girlfriend is okay with me hang out with you. I'm harmless. I won't try tho rap you or undress u with my eyes. But I will gag you and make you go to the bathroom in the back of the truck. ,,,, can we get a stuffed dog and tie it to the back of the truck so people think we r twisted.* Or this :I have a time share in Hawaii ,, will you be my husband. We can get stoned on the beach every night ..lol JK.* Or another txt regarding a party comin up: I just told ***** i'm bringing ether to the party so I can take advantage of her. Your welcome to watch.* Or another flirtatious type text: It's okay,, I want (my gf) to feel comfy, and I won't take you away from her!! Besides you prob have small peinus ,, in 12" and over. Hehe. Remember I popped out 2 kid naturally.* One txt regarding my gf: Maybe ur gf an come over and have sex with me and you and my huz could watch. ,,,, I'm JK or Maybe* another : Pretty much,,, I'm strong too!! But I can't tell you how bad I want some strange !! And run away. ,,,, my life was ***** it kind of nice to ack like mrs. Cleaver.* but then I'll get something about the husband that makes it all go away: In so frustrated now,,,my husband was giving it to me (laying pipe ) and my 5 year old son walked in. I didn't finished. Your lucky u don't have kids.* So how do u make of all this. so just the other day she needed to use my vehicle to pick up furniture from her grandma's house and I went with her and for 8 hours there wasn't more than 10 seconds of silence. now there was not one time where I was accidentally touched or anything of that nature but we had nice talks and I made her laugh a lot and we set a lot of off the wall stuff that we would in texts. upon dropping off her with her furniture I did not get any goodbye hug so I'm basically thinking that I'm just a really good guy friend to her that is privy to a lot more then most married women would mention to an almost stranger.* can anyone give me any insight on this? yes I know some things that were said were inappropriate but I have no emotions invested where if I couldn't ever talk to her again it wouldn't be a big deal. but on the other hand I am fascinated by her... and yes I know she's messed up in the head

[MissingMyHubby]

I'm assuming I'm not getting a reply because it's one block of text which I'm sorry for... the copy and paste did not work too well

[BradJacobs]

She wants to have sex. She doesn't want it to break up her marriage.

 

If you're down with that then go ahead. If you're not then this is only going to lead to trouble.

 

Does you gf know the extent of your texting conversations? If she did would she be upset?

[MissingMyHubby]

See she is weird in the fact i think she gives off signals to indicate an interest and then when the guy verbalizes it, she says ummm no! So i think i may have to start withdrawing a bit to prevent her from tginking im interested. of course if she's just teasing me like someone in our path I would be better off not saying anything to give her ne ego boost. until she starts unzipping my pants I'm going to assume she's just a tease but I won't allow myself to cheat either

Edited August 18, 2013 by MissingMyHubby
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[BradJacobs]

See she is weird in the fact i think she gives off signals to indicate an interest and then when the guy verbalizes it, she says ummm no! So i think i may have to start withdrawing a bit to prevent her from tginking im interested. of course if she's just teasing me like someone in our path I would be better off not saying anything to give her ne ego boost. until she starts unzipping my pants I'm going to assume she's just a tease but I won't allow myself to cheat either

Then why the comment about unzipping your pants? What does it matter if she's serious or a tease? Certainly you get some ego boost/JO material from your exchanges why else would you be concerned about it?

 

If you won't allow yourself to cheat yet you continue to let her carry on like she does then you are in fact just as big of a tease as she is.

 

You never answered the question about what your girlfriend knows or doesn't know.

[MissingMyHubby]

so I had an interesting weekend... there was a party for an old gf of mine from years ago and she invited me to go. so I brought my girlfriend and i invited the married chick and I also went with our mutual friend. the married chick said that she was off the leash for the night.

 

so I ride with my mutual friend and we get there and I guess she was already drinking for two hours ( although holding it together fine). my gf was to be there 15 minutes later which she was. at any rate , the party:

 

she is kind of following me around wherever I go but I made sure to look like I wasn't interested as to not raise suspicions. the party got rowdy and all the guys ended up switching their shirts for female tank tops and the females wore our shirts. somehow I ended up with my ex's lol

 

a little bit later we go outside and form a small circle of 6 people with some bud and a pop can. in the circle consists of me another guy my ex my current and the married chick and another friend of my ex.

 

the guy would start the circle with the smoke and basically what you do is exhale to the next person and then they pass it to the next person. the married chick sat next to me via her own choosing. my gf what is fine with her at this point because she was loosened up and having fun. I was taking the married girls smoke and we had a little tongue action that no one else could see for each 5 second of passing the smoke. after a few times of that I left the circle and encouraged my gf to take from her and continue to the original guy ( which she did.)

 

a bit later we go inside and my college buddy randomly lays on the married chick while she's on the couch in a highly sexual position. being the drunk ones we were I orchestrated a few more positions for them to do. so he thought he was going to get some following that but I knew she was just a tease. and that was the end of it after about 10 minutes.

 

the next day she texts me and says " btw sorry I penetrated you with my tongue ." I said no big deal we were drunk and I'm sure I was equally probing.

she responded by saying works for me and also I'm glade I could entertain you. It truly was child's play. I liked the choking. ,,, like I said alcohol is bad for me becuz my inter pervert comes out.

 

and that's pretty much the end of it... my girlfriend is more open to the idea of a 3 way but not anytime soon.

The married girl also told her husband that she kissed my girlfriend and I guess he said he was upset because he wasn't there to watch lol! I know crazy stuff.