SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 There's no way I'd want what society considers to be "large" breasts if I did get implants, I'd just want to be bumped up to a B cup or something (which is HUGE to me). Anything else I think would look ridiculous. Just want something so I'm not basically completely flat like I am now. You weren't even supposed to be contemplating actual breasts, let alone your own, as the result of what I wrote. That you were... just disturbs me. I was referencing breasts only as something with a more familiar database and which is easier to quantify than are the more personal-to-you references to your mid section. The truth is, nobody studies the midsections of other to the extent which breasts are studied, and for that reason most don't stop to ponder, or couldn't even express what they like/prefer there. Some of your words since my last post sounded so refreshing and hope-inducing, but there was quite the contrast between your expressed/implied comfort in not primping too much in the morning, and being confident about your job-related self... and your self-image relating to your physical appeal. You are emphatically "not overweight", and yet you have these concerns. What about the 'picky' part? How much of that relates solely to applying a seeming 'bar' to others, and sorting them based on whether they qualify, and how much of it relates solely to reasons why it is d**n difficult to let yourself be truly vulnerable?? Meaning, if you are making a solid and respectable effort at putting yourself in the paths of lots and lots of people (ideally in 'casual', non-romantic settings) then you can feel a bit more fair in citing your 'picky' ways as being an accurate summation. If instead, you have fostered a life routine for yourself which involves 6 evenings a week spent at home and alone, working long hours, and simply not meeting enough new people no matter the arena in which you meet bona fide new people then you should first endeavor to change that last part about yourself.
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