Bob360 Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 Me and my ex broke up about 7 months ago. Recently I found out she dating some other guy. For some reason it hurts me? Why is that? I don't know what these feelings are. In addition I've been dreaming about her and me reconciling. I'm lost and confused. Any advice?
Author Bob360 Posted August 16, 2013 Author Posted August 16, 2013 Were you the dumper? No basically I got dumped after 1year and 3 months because she said she still loves her ex, this ex though I never knew she was with her. She was actually texting him while we were together, I was ok with her texting her "friend" because I didn't know it was her ex. So I get dumped because she says she still loves him and will always love him. But recently I find out she's dating this other dude!?!?
templeofmax Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 So she is in love with her ex, left you because of that and is dating someone else???
Author Bob360 Posted August 16, 2013 Author Posted August 16, 2013 So she is in love with her ex, left you because of that and is dating someone else??? Yup that's what happened
templeofmax Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Well, in your case I think its hurt you are feeling!!! I mean, she walked all over you while still communicating with her ex not as 'friends', even though she said that. Then, she walked out on you with that excuse, only to go to someone else. I don't know you, but I believe you deserve much better!!! How long were you with her?
Tropi_cali510 Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 man up, get over it, do you, focus on you, go run, go workout, go work extra hours, get money, the ladies will come, better ones then the last, just takes time, one day att a time..
Author Bob360 Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 Well, in your case I think its hurt you are feeling!!! I mean, she walked all over you while still communicating with her ex not as 'friends', even though she said that. Then, she walked out on you with that excuse, only to go to someone else. I don't know you, but I believe you deserve much better!!! How long were you with her? 1 year and 3 months. She said that her texting with him was just as friends but I didn't agree with it because she lied to me.
Author Bob360 Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 man up, get over it, do you, focus on you, go run, go workout, go work extra hours, get money, the ladies will come, better ones then the last, just takes time, one day att a time.. The thing is after that my confidence and motivation went down the drain.
flitzanu Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 its not uncommon to still feel hurt this far after your breakup, no. it's never easy, just try not to focus on any of it.
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