for666 Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 well i know people around me (friends, family) say i'm really far from being needy but my ex.. thought i pressure her!... she didn't say it to me even do i asked her if this is the problem but some of her friend's sad i was needy (out of blue break up btw) i know i argued with her allot about thing's that i need'd but i cant call my self needy. i'm far from jealous person and i never acted out of jealousy. i have no problem canceling plan's if need'd. i have a huge circle of friend so i'm k by my own but sometime i just love to sit home and do noting. i have never had problems her going out with friend More! then me. never investigated on her. never took her phone or enter her Facebook (even do i cud). never over-call her (call ones or twice and than wait for reply). always supported her choices even do i knew it can hurt out time of meeting. some time's she invited to meet her up before she go's to a party (30-1hr). but i hate it so i canceled it and sad we can hand up tomorrow cos i don't like. those short visiting time's ( i just went out with friend's). to a conclusion here are the things i argued with her 1. SHE follow through on her promise to call, text, or be somewhere. problem is she promise's to call and i don't hear a call till the next morning i argued politely on it by saying that if you promise keep your word or text me that you'r busy and if you don't promise i don't mind you not calling me hole day! it drives me angry cos i'm waiting for the call and i hear noting (you promised keep it!) she makes plan's with me and i take a day off and in the last second she changes them all! late for the hole shift day that i cud just go to work i get angry on it two why the hell do i need to take a day off from work if you gonna **** the day up with being late and changing the hole day for me (when i cud just go to work?) 2. she arrives on time, most always. well no she is late always and not 10-20m it's a 1-2hr late i'm not getting to angry on it but it's something casual! and i always tell her not to do it (she promises but it just continues) i cud make a def rant plans do something us-full ,my time worth something i have a life, you being late makes me lose time for noting 3. She willingly makes time for you, instead of merely “fitting you in” between his priorities. well i do that i need to find time for that her priorities was family study friend's army me. so i constantly need'd to make plans with her to fit the time i'm defensively not angry on her priority but it wude be nice if the time i do make for her that is much less than usual she will respect it! and not get late or change it she fitted me in her time and didn't make time for me we talk'd about it couple of time cos it's bothering me but it haven't changed allot just a little (she try'd to fit in more) + time to time when we arrange a meeting lets say 7pm i call her and have no respond i call her 8pm and no respond 9pm and no respond 10pm she calls back and say she felt a sleep... my reaction was fine i just sad next time if you go to sleep before out meeting inform me it feel's like she dosnt give a F now the thing is you can now say good luck that she left you cos she is toxic but the problem is it's what she do's to EVERYONE not only me so i cant blame her to much on it but me arguing on those thing make me needy? really? how the f? be happy to hear a respond thank allot
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