shreddedguy23 Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 So I want to keep this short because most people wont read it if its really long. My girlfriend has been short with me this week and distant she doesn't send me cute good morning texts and goodnight which makes me lead to the decision that she is obviously seeing someone else. I got a message the other day and answered it an hour later and then called her to see if we could hang out and talk. She let it go to voicemail. Then I text her what the **** she read it but didn't respond. I asked her if she was angry and got no response. I ask her what was going on and still got no response. Finally, I said if you don't call me in a half hour were over and you'll never hear from me again. Still no response what do I do. Im giving her space but I want her back but I want her to come back on her own. Will she ever text me back because I hate leaving on a bad note. Will this ever hit her like it hit me?
Legatus Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 If she wanted an escape route you gave it to her on a plate. You should simply stop contacting her for a week or two, not giving her ultimatum as it looks like you broke up with her without her involvement. That could be what she wanted. Wait few days and try to see her face to face. If she won't want to see you it means she got from you what she wanted: a way out...
jesse93 Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 That is odd, It seems like something is up is there anything you did previously that could have made her upset to randomly stop talking to you like that? I think you should go NC completely and eventually I'm sure she will come to you man, I'm sure of it unless she randomly fell head over heels for some guy she has been talking to, but I think if you go NC she will end up texting you first, is there any evidence of her talking to another guy or anything? I don't want you to jump to conclusions or anything but it is very odd for her to disappear like that I hope she contacts you man.
Author shreddedguy23 Posted August 16, 2013 Author Posted August 16, 2013 its just weird that she hasn't said anything to me. Yea, I gave her a way out but if she wanted to break up with me she would've essentially so if anything it shows that I don't need her u know. I like to have her in my life but I don't need her.
CC12 Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 Finally, I said if you don't call me in a half hour were over and you'll never hear from me again. Still no response what do I do. What do you do? Well, I guess you adhere to the ultimatum you gave her. You said "if you don't call me in a half hour were over and you'll never hear from me again." And she didn't call you. It's done. You can't go back on your word now. So you know what you need to do - don't contact her ever again.
Emilia Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 its just weird that she hasn't said anything to me. Yea, I gave her a way out but if she wanted to break up with me she would've essentially so if anything it shows that I don't need her u know. I like to have her in my life but I don't need her. Has she done this before? Did she cut you off for no reason in the past?
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