kin999 Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 so things is like this... this girl, we have been together for 1 and half year. because of some stupid reason i left her last august, and then i cut her off for nearly 6 or 7 weeks. then i feel i still love her, so i started to try to get her back on last october. but she was cold... like didn't really reply calls or texts. this january she finally told me she wanted to be friends but her new boyfriend found the text and asked me to stop contact her. it was very sad. but in april she contacted me again. said she broke up with her new boyfriend and want to be my friends again(she also she just want to get away from me so date new person). so we started to text everyday and sometimes we go out. in first 3 month i keep trying to talk with her about i want her back. but she always say she just want to be friends but she does like me... few days ago she said she start feel some pressure because i always looks sad. then i tried to back off a lillte, and actually it works... so now we have been text each other and sometimes hang out for 4 months, and we went for a trip for 4 days last weekend(she invited me to). it was so good. and we had good sex(since we broke 1 year ago). i think it's a good sign? now she still text a lot everyday like what she's doing or where she's going etc. but we haven't talk serious about anything about start a relationship again. is she waiting me to do something more? i don't know what to do now, should i talk to her about getting back or just keep patience and see what what will happened natually? really don't want mess things up... thanks for reading, would like to get some of your opinion. btw, english is not my first language, so sorry about some grammer or spell mistake...
Philosoraptor Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 Sounds like there is a lot of back and forth games being played and not everyone is showing their intentions. How old are the two of you?
Author kin999 Posted August 19, 2013 Author Posted August 19, 2013 I am 25, and she is 27. this weekend she asked me to stay in her place again, and the next day we went to beach, she even introduce me to her friend. but when i tried to kiss her, she refused and said it's strange.. i am a bit confused now...
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