tkp Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 I have been going through hell literally for the past 4 months. Every day is so difficult to pass without thinking of her and how great we were together. I just cant get the feelings out and absolve myself of this excruciating pain. I remember how i was before i met her- so free and so happy being single that i used to wonder why people used to be in a relationship. After i got into one, it felt great, like she was my soulmate, she knew me inside out. And now that she is not there my mind just cant stop thinking about her, how well we connected mentally, sexually, emotionally, everything was just right and it fit. Now i hate to be alone and i fear to be alone, when i am alone i start thinking about her, thoughts spiral and i again become devastated with my feelings. It is better to end life than to be in this kind of pain. I feel pity for myself for not being able to be with her. And my heart cries everyday for her, thinking of her and i feel i am not worth anything anymore, that my life will be **** afterwards now without her whatever i do. I hate to think all this but don’t know what to do. I know people say time will heal things, but its been 4 months and i feel the same as before, may be a slight slight slight bit better ONLY. I have read so many posts and they make a lot of sense but i cannot reason with my emotions, they thwart any reasoning logic presented to them and heart wants to believe it wants to without any help of mind. i would really appreciate some help.
supaflyz Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 Nobody, and I mean nobody is worth taking your life. They are just another person just like you.
Frog Princess Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 I know people say time will heal things, but its been 4 months and i feel the same as before, may be a slight slight slight bit better ONLY. The saying is correct, but it's lacking something. It's not that time heals all wounds. It's what you do with that time. What do you do during the day? Do you work? Do you spend time with friends? Have any hobbies? For hilarious dating stories, articles and good advice, visit www.smoochingfrogs.com.
Author tkp Posted August 16, 2013 Author Posted August 16, 2013 i have to leave early in the morning for work, mornings are the toughest..i am so strongly reminded of her and how we used to talk endlessly in mornings before i went for work that it gives me headache that i keep thinking about it. before i met her i started to jog and found it very entertaining. now when i run or jog, something keeps running at the back of my head, dont know i am reminded even while i am running and cant feel FREE for even a MIN. in the evenings i am alone at home and i try to watch some comedy stuff like animation or comedy series to keep alive. it does entertain me but when i get off, then again there it is staring at me. May be i think too much.
mtnbiker3000 Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 Sounds like you are 'snowballing'. Try to stop the thoughts when they come to you. Search TaraMaiden's posts as she has a thread about what it is and how to combat it... Hang in there man. She's just a person. You will find another, I promise!!!
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