mysticalstar Posted November 7, 2004 Posted November 7, 2004 Hello! Ok so here it goes! The guy I have been dating for about two and a half months has been acting kind of weird lately. I'm very into him and i'm pretty sure he is really into me as well. We are with each other pretty much every day and night and just see each other a lot. However, tonight and the past few nights he has been acting kind of crabby towards me. He has been very short with me and plain and simple crabby. Thursday night he had "guys" night which didn't turn into guys night because there were girls over, and now tonight he is having "guys" night again, which i'm pretty sure the same girls will be over. I asked him to call me later on if he wanted, and he said he just needed a night alone. Which i am totally fine with because i like to have my space as well. I am just very confused because he is making me upset. I am nervous that I ruined things by being with him so much, but it seemed like that is what he wanted. I am also worrying that he is going to break up with me because of this, and I would be very sad. I don't want us to break up. If space is what he wants, i would be more than happy to give it to him. And i have told him this but i just don't know. I turn 21 in one day, so i'm thinking that will help not being with him as much because i will be going out a lot more!! but, I need some advice!! Thanks!
bluechocolate Posted November 7, 2004 Posted November 7, 2004 You two are still early days & sorry to say, but this doesn't sound promising. A few months into seeing each other & he would rather spend another night out with the guys than with you. Time & space within a relationship are indeed serious issues that many couples have to deal with. I happen to think that if you're dealing with those issues after only 2 months, well................ Given that you've just both had a problem over this very thing I would have thought that if he was at all serious about this relationship he would be healing bridges with you rather than leaving you to spend another night wondering what girl(s) are going to end up out with them on guys night. I turn 21 in one day, so i'm thinking that will help not being with him as much because i will be going out a lot more!! That's probably a good idea!
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