theonlyjuan Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I am over my ex and all that but I have a problem. Whenever I have gone out and met new people I have no interest in them. It's like I don't even want to get to know someone that well. Part of me feels like I can't be bothered to get close to someone again, I don't know if it's fear of being hurt again or just too soon after my last relationship. I hope this doesn't last forever. Do you think if the right person came along I would feel something for them, enough to make me want to get to know them and get close to them? Is this normal? I used to have a habit of jumping straight into relationships, now I have done the complete opposite. Right now relationships seem like a lot of hassle to be in and take up a lot of time and effort, which I just don't feel like I can give right now.
Philosoraptor Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Sounds like you have different priorities and you're not ready for a relationship. I had a decent period of that myself a couple years back. Once you're ready you will know. For now, enjoy yourself, your hobbies, date around if you want, and just let things happen naturally. 1
Author theonlyjuan Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 Yeah I'm concentrating on myself and career change. I think/hope when I am happy with all of that, I will feel it again. I really did think I would have jumped at the first chance to be in a relationship, that's what I did with my ex. Maybe I have finally learnt my lesson, everyone did tell me that I should try and stay single for a while. Maybe finally I can have a girl best friend without falling for them or jumping in a relationship
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