Star Gazer Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 WHaaaa??? Seriously? Almost every woman I know who ISN'T engaged has one. I don't have one. 1
Star Gazer Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 I've always wanted a small one in an old church by a gorgeous glacial lake that we have around here, surrounded by snow-capped mountains. I suspect that my someday-if-it-ever-happens wedding will be so small, that my biggest concern will be all the people I'm offending by not inviting them. 2
Author miss_jaclynrae Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 I felt the same way when Soldier Boy was deployed. Having him gone, I just wanted him here, in my day-to-day life again. I was willing to go to City Hall. (Hey, it's a really pretty building!) Once he got back, I wanted the formality of having our loved ones there to celebrate with us. Me thinks you'll feel the same way again once he comes back. That could totally be it! Luckily in any case, if we get engaged, there will NOT be a gunshot wedding! Isn't it funny how having the one you love away changes your outlook on things?
Krytie TV Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 I will tell you that I married my wife at city hall downtown in the presence of about 30 other couples. Granted, it was my second wedding. My first wedding was on a cruise ship and I had the whole family along for the ride. It was quite party. I divorced her two years later. After getting married at city hall, we got pregnant and had two beautiful little girls. I love my wife now more than I ever knew possible. It's probably not hard to read the point of my post. Money spent does not equal happiness. Know what matters most to you and go from there.
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