rastamoose Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I like my ex's sister. I know this is seen as a no go area. I don't like her to piss my ex off or to stay in contact with her family. She is 18 and she is more my type than her sister. She has liked my photo on FB and other pictures. I was round their house the other week ( brother is my friend ) I see her looking at me now and then. I saw her shopping a while back and she spoke to me loads, she never used to say much when I was with her sister. She seemed all nervous. I'm not sure if she likes me, I don't think she would ever tell me. I remember my ex telling me once that she said I was handsome when she saw a picture of me. I'm not going to ask her on a date or anything, I don't want to cause WW3. Do you think it's ok for me to talk to he through Facebook? I don't want her to feel like she has to, I'm not sure if she even wants to. I don't want her to fall out with my ex and I don't want my ex to think I am doing this to piss her off.
Ireallydontknow Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Talking to her would be fine as long she won't bring your ex up. It's a pretty big grey area. You know these people better than us. If it's going to mess your NC up then I wouldn't. Who knows though something could come out of it? She's 18 so watch out, those young girls are notorious for game playing!
theonlyjuan Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I agree. Is she the type to rub it in her sisters face? If they have an argument I can see a " Well your ex talks to me and not you " being said. Saying that, I don't know them.
NomiMalone Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 You seem like a very decent guy, but I think that would be disrespectful to your ex. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. 1
will1988 Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I say go for it... who cares about your ex, she is your ex for a reason... talk to her and see how it goes.
Misfortune Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I like my ex's sister. I know this is seen as a no go area. I don't like her to piss my ex off or to stay in contact with her family. She is 18 and she is more my type than her sister. She has liked my photo on FB and other pictures. I was round their house the other week ( brother is my friend ) I see her looking at me now and then. I saw her shopping a while back and she spoke to me loads, she never used to say much when I was with her sister. She seemed all nervous. I'm not sure if she likes me, I don't think she would ever tell me. I remember my ex telling me once that she said I was handsome when she saw a picture of me. I'm not going to ask her on a date or anything, I don't want to cause WW3. Do you think it's ok for me to talk to he through Facebook? I don't want her to feel like she has to, I'm not sure if she even wants to. I don't want her to fall out with my ex and I don't want my ex to think I am doing this to piss her off. Your ex don't own you nor her sis. If you can deal with all the possible drama and complications that will come with it, knock yourself out. Good luck. Could also be some devious scheme between her and the ex. Either way, good luck.
Simon Phoenix Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Go for it. You don't owe the ex a thing. 1
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