lgold92 Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Long story short me and my ex were together for a little over 2 years and lived together for those 2 years (we were at uni and were just friends when we sorted out living together with other people) He was my best friend and we did used to have a laugh but the last year he kept going on dating websites, cheating on me with girls in clubs etc. Despite this it would always be him breaking up with me after such an incident and me begging him to give it another go. He rang me drunk at 5am last week to say we were breaking up and by this point I had already wrote a letter breaking up with him and really wasn't that bothered, I felt emotionally exhausted from everything and was done. But now every other night at about 5am (drunk on his way back from a club probably) he rings me (I don't answer) then last night at 3am I got 3 missed calls and a text asking me 'what my f*cking issue is' and that he only wanted to talk to me about a tv programme we both like. I have been NC completely since we broke up and I don't want to break that but I honestly don't care about us anymore, this must be the quickest I've gotten over a relationship (probably because I felt like we had actually broken up months ago) at the same time though I feel quite bitter about how he treated me and would love to address what my 'f**king issue is' Knowing that I don't want him back and wont be set back by breadcrumbs should I text him back or remain nc?
NomiMalone Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Stay strong and remain stone cold NC!! Delete his number, email, Facebook, burn your phone, whatever it takes. Someone who repeatedly cheats on you with girls in clubs is NOT WORTH ANOTHER SECOND OF YOUR TIME even though you don't want him back. 1
PlumPrincess Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I say, ringing someone up at 3 am repeatedly to talk about a TV programm is a very good reason to break up!
almond Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Remain NC, and work on yourself. You need to address whatever issues you have going on, and they're definitely there - if after being cheated on multiple times, and being dumped once you catch him out, you BEG him to take YOU back, then there is definitely something up. Sort yourself out and don't worry about his text - you have bigger fish to fry. Good luck <3
dgiirl Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Yep, do NOT break no contact. Him calling you up at 3 am after a night of clubbing is so disrespectful. I wouldn't give him the time of day! I think you need to focus on yourself and ask why you would allow such a man into your life.
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