Confused_Soul_23 Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Just wanted to let everone who has recently split up that things do get better. Its been over 2 months since BU and over a month of NC and things are looking up. I went on a couple of dates too soon after the break up which didn't really help. Last night though I went on a date with a new girl I met and even from the first date I know we are more compatable than I was with the ex. It made me realise all the things that clashed with me and the ex. I am also going away for a few weeks next month which I am now thinking about more. Seeing this new girl again at the weekend. Things will get easier just give it time. Only 3 weeks ago I was pining over my ex now today I woke up feeling really happy and now if she did come back I would probably turn her down. Keep up the NC and live life to it's fullest!
Ireallydontknow Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Everyone is going to take a different amount of time. It's all about what you do too. If you are making all the positive changes you want, you will heal faster. If you are sitting under the blanket with a gallon tub of ice cream listening to The Cure and holding a picture of your ex, crying, well that's obviously not healthy.
xanitus Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 if we all met our perfect match a month or so after the BU im sure we would get over our exes as well, but that doesn't happen for most of us
Author Confused_Soul_23 Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 I'm not saying I have met my perfect match by any means. It's a first date. However there are so many other women out there. This is my second breakup and it has been much easier than my first. Yes I did love her but now I realise she is not worth it. She chose to walk out of my lif, for anyone to do that they know they risk not seeing that person ever again. All I'm saying is it does get better with time. How much time depends on your mindset and what you do to get over her/him.
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