krtinjain Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 My gf broke up with me 3 days back. we guys had a 3 years long realtionship. Eveything was perfect in our realtionship. we loved each other very much. Suddenly my gf thinks that she cant handle both this together. She's in a law college and has just entered 2nd year. with the workload increasing exponentially she thinks that she's burdened. She feels she'll not be able to give proper time to the realtionship thus hurting me and herself. i've been telling her that we'll work everything out but she's not ready to listen. Some stupid people gave her the advice that to be successful you'll have to get over eveything. She yesterday said that she loves me a lot and that she'll never make a new bf because she'll end up disrespecing out time. She wants me to be her best friend now so that she can stll share everything and not feel burdened. i badly want her back. i know somewhere down the line she wants it too but she's fearing that we'll fight and all. we will complete our three years on 17/8/2013. i beg you guys to help me.
skydiveaddict Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Forget it dude. You are now old news in her world. In other words you are now in the friend zone. There is no way out. As for the sleepless nights, I'd go to your doc for some sleeping pills. And If I were you, I'd cut all contact w/her.
Ireallydontknow Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I'm not sure I'd recommend sleeping pills. This is a temporary thing that will pass. At first I couldn't eat or sleep. Yesterday I went out with family and got a big ol' burrito! The only thing we have one our side is time and determination. Keep making those changes bud, it's all we have right now. Soon you'll be able to attract the person you want, not the person you think you deserve.
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