krtinjain Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 My gf broke up with me 3 days back. we guys had a 3 years long realtionship. Eveything was perfect in our realtionship. we loved each other very much. Suddenly my gf thinks that she cant handle both this together. She's in a law college and has just entered 2nd year. with the workload increasing exponentially she thinks that she's burdened. She feels she'll not be able to give proper time to the realtionship thus hurting me and herself. i've been telling her that we'll work everything out but she's not ready to listen. Some stupid people gave her the advice that to be successful you'll have to get over eveything. She yesterday said that she loves me a lot and that she'll never make a new bf because she'll end up disrespecing out time. She wants me to be her best friend now so that she can stll share everything and not feel burdened. i badly want her back. i know somewhere down the line she wants it too but she's fearing that we'll fight and all. we will complete our three years on 17/8/2013. i beg you guys to help me.
TigerCub Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 (edited) I'm sorry for what you're going through I really don't have much to tell you except that if she wants to break up to concentrate on her school - fine, but she can't still have you as her buddy. She can't have it both ways. If you guys are broken up, you need time and some space to wrap your head around it and heal. It's unfair of her to break up with you but expect you to hang around so that she can lean on you when it suits her - all that will do is delay you from healing. I know you love her and this must be so painful, but do what's best for you. Edited August 15, 2013 by TigerCub 2
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