krtinjain Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 My gf broke up with me 3 days back. we guys had a 3 years long realtionship. Eveything was perfect in our realtionship. we loved each other very much. Suddenly my gf thinks that she cant handle both this together. She's in a law college and has just entered 2nd year. with the workload increasing exponentially she thinks that she's burdened. She feels she'll not be able to give proper time to the realtionship thus hurting me and herself. i've been telling her that we'll work everything out but she's not ready to listen. Some stupid people gave her the advice that to be successful you'll have to get over eveything. She yesterday said that she loves me a lot and that she'll never make a new bf because she'll end up disrespecing out time. She wants me to be her best friend now so that she can stll share everything and not feel burdened. i badly want her back. i know somewhere down the line she wants it too but she's fearing that we'll fight and all. we will complete our three years on 17/8/2013. i beg you guys to help me.
Faith13/2 Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I can see why no one has commented this post, mostly because I'm sure not many people know exactly what to say to help you.. You obviously can't force someone to be in a relationship with you, but at the same time I can understand why you feel so strongly about making this work after so long. Being her "best friend" will never work out since as you've said you still care for her so much. I wish I could tell you more and give you some information to help ease the situation, but honestly all I can say is let it play out.. If she cares for you as she says she will be back, if not I think you already know what happens next. I wish you the best of luck, be easy on yourself and keep your head up at all cost. 1
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