Author Echo000 Posted August 16, 2013 Author Share Posted August 16, 2013 haha the trick was..after four months of NC, we began talking again in mid may through June (stopped talking and began NC for good since July, when she told me via text she was moving away). We were on the phone during at month and a half we were talking again, and i got her to admit she would activate her old fb at times to go through my fb (she is shady like that, so i just guessed right). I told her I had a really funny status i posted and that she should log in to read it using her old account (b/c i blocked her new account, the one she has used/had for a year now). She did, and when i knew she was on i found her name and un-friended her. I told her over the phone that i got her, and that she had just been unfriended on the old account as well. HAHA she was so pissed, she immediately tried adding me back and pleading on the phone but i said hell no. A couple days later she did exactly what i predicted (and even said) she was gonna do: she said she was just messing and didnt care about it. Thats why she wanted to get her friend to friend me. Because she is a major loser, a manipulative bum, and could no longer spy on me from her old account so she figured she could use her friend's account to do it. Disgusting. What a loser. And your right. She probably is waiting, waiting for me to text her asking her why that happened. Probably had her friend ignore my message asking her why she friended me so i would go directly to her (i know they are together right now). Sad part, i thought about texting her about it the day it happened, to tell her to f off and leave me alone. Im very glad i kept quiet. Girl like her, she becomes more pathetic looking to me every day. Oh and FYI. I guaruntee one day she will try reaching out to me. On that day i know it wont be because she realized how big a loser she has been, or because she loves me. The day she contacts me will be my indication that something (or someone) is not going well in her life. I only ever seem to matter to her if she needs something from me. I hope she suffers. Link to post Share on other sites
mtnbiker3000 Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 I've said it before and I'll say it again. I HATE Facebook. They ought to call it BreakupBook or ExBook. LOL!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Echo000 Posted August 17, 2013 Author Share Posted August 17, 2013 i do too. what sucks is that organizations/groups use facebook to reach its members. just this summer i got notified of something really important through fb. i want to get rid of my fb so badly, but if i dont have it i take a huge risk on missing some important information. sucks because i honestly am so sick of fb. just a place to see other peoples fake bs, and now its a forum in which my ex can find ways to mess with my head 1 Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 Hmmm. I would try to chill. It was just a FB friend request. No big deal whatever the motive. I understand your anger but at the same time you will realize down the road that it is just nothing. Also however immature this reqquest may seem, dumpers generally have no idea that we can be so affected by a BU so many months later. I in fact have trouble relating to the agony and suffering since becoming indifferent and i just went thru this recently. you will eventually shrug stuff like this off without a second thought. Rock on! cav Link to post Share on other sites
Author Echo000 Posted August 17, 2013 Author Share Posted August 17, 2013 i already can see exactly what it is.. what her motive was and how LITTLE it really is. Because it is really little. But your right, i am positive she is naive/oblivious to how immature it looks and how it could negatively affect my emotions. But im proud of how i handled it. Im happy i didnt contact her over it..wouldnt be surprised if part of her motive for having her friend request me would be to simply stir things up. immaturity and childishness at its finest. only thing ill say cav..is that a person doesnt need to fully understand anothers pain to act in a respectful and mature manner. why she had her friend request me is obvious: they were together, and my ex was hoping i would accept it so that she could look through my stuff and see how my life is without her. also, like i said, to stir things up/throw herself in front of me to try and get my attention. In sum: you shouldnt have to know the pain, you dont have to mutually feel it even, to still show someone respect and compassion. Especially toward a person you claim to have loved, and who treated you right. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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