HTS1977 Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 long story short: My Fiance who I have a 2 yr old with, we have been together 4 years. She cheated on her husband 4 years ago with a guy and left him, I met her after that relationship with the cheat ended. We split up 2 weeks ago, I had my own problems with gambling, she couldn't take it anymore, cited lies and gambling and would not talk about changes. Today she texts me when I ask to see my daughter, sorry have other plans with kids, we are going to fair with Jason and his son.... Jason is the guy she cheated on her husband with, and they split up originally because he treated her badly and cheated on her. Seriously WTF!! Bringing this guy around my 2 yr old, 2 weeks after we split when I have been trying to focus on getting us back together?
Eddie Edirol Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 As you unfortunately found out, she might not want to work on getting back together. I think you should assume that for now and dont try to reconcile. Let her have him for now, and let her think youre moving on. You might have to deal with her rebounding to him until she decides that she doesnt want to deal with his treatment, and then coming back to you. That could take months, if ever, and it could take a long time of absence for her to believe that you changed. If you do change for the better.
Author HTS1977 Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 my point is...bringing my child around a guy she slept with 4 years ago when she was married...he then cheated on her and she left him right before we got together and she goes running back to him right after we split up... fact is, my child should not be around another guy at this point...secondly he is obviously giving her what she needs which is comfort because she is feeling bad because of the breakup, she don't want to give chances to me...but she does to this guy who has cheated on her!?!?!?
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