Silly_Girl Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 Why is it necessary to define this? Why can't we just love them both - period, end of story? We can of course. I bet most of us literally never contemplate this specific point away from LS. I find it interesting though.
Ursa Posted September 25, 2013 Posted September 25, 2013 I'm not sure I can quantify this. The love is so real but so different for each. I can say that if, say, my son and husband were both drowning I would do anything to try to save my child first before I turned my attention to my husband. That wouldn't even require a second thought. That's what my husband would want, however, and we're on the same page there. I mean, if my son and I were both drowning and my husband saved ME and our son didn't make it, I would probably never be able to forgive him. On a more average, day-to-day basis, however, I do put my husband first at times as I feel it's extremely important to nurture our marriage, which ultimately hugely benefits our kids as well.
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