King Bowls Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 (edited) As many of you have probably read my earlier post on this thread section, I had the great idea of checking her instagram, only to find out she had a boyfriend, and seeing pictures of them kissing, an all that crap. That really hit home for me. Someone please tear my @$$ up an give me a good pep talk on this to knock this out of me. I thought I was tougher than this, but we all live and learn I guess. Edited August 14, 2013 by King Bowls Use of words
Author King Bowls Posted August 14, 2013 Author Posted August 14, 2013 And by earlier thread I meant the one about the girl "love" thing, and I had the great idea to check her instagram just now
Author King Bowls Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 I read your other thread, and the word 'obsessed' is what kept going through my mind. She's done nothing to lead you on (well she slept with you while having a boyfriend) but other than that, you claim she WANTED to quit talking to you in September and she did. What did you do to make her quit wanting to talk to you? That, I don't get. I think the biggest element here is longing for something that you can't have. People often say fantasy is better than reality, and that might be very true in your case. It's also a life lesson - not everything we want can always be ours, which a lot of the time makes us long for these things that much more. Something tells me if she became available and showed up on your doorstep and became very EASY for you to have, you'd lose interest. Well she never told me anything after I left her front door that September morning. How I found was through my brothers friend, who is her cousin. Her cousin told my brother I was more interested in football (because I mentioned USC being upset!!), said I was weird, and that sometimes she just didnt want to talk. When I found that out, it turned my world upside. Because my daily thoughts have been much different ever since. I mean you're probably right, but it just makes me, hmm probably frustrated in a way, and unhappy. What kind of fantasy can I get with this, with reality being out of the question? I should of never looked at her instagram. I'm trying hard to see her nothing more than a little girl who doesn't know better to make myself feel better
thefooloftheyear Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 They are just people...You are a young kid..Stop thinking with your little head..Just move on.. Dont check social media if you cant handle it..What you dont know cant hurt you.. TFY
It's Just Me Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Block, delete, unfriend... whatever. And move on. It is what it is.
Author King Bowls Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 They are just people...You are a young kid..Stop thinking with your little head..Just move on.. Dont check social media if you cant handle it..What you dont know cant hurt you.. TFY This has nothing sexual about it. Perhaps I'm overthinking it with my big head
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