irc333 Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 There's a couple of women on my FB friends list that kind of over do it when posting pics of themselves in bikinis , naughty negligees', etc. I don't mind it once in a while, but recently, this one posts a "good morning it's 'hump'day" (word with double meaning there, lol)...and a picture of her facing the ocean and of course her butt to the camera. Sometimes she'd have pics of herself posing at poolside and even does amateur modeling. She's a bank teller and another I know of, believe it or not...is a telemarketer. lol What's ironic is you hardly EVER see the husbands in the pictures...that's the scary part, but occasionally you'd see him subtlety pipe in a meek comment on one of her photos, "I love you honey!" Sometimes I wonder if this is the sign of the downward slope to marriage, or the husband gets his rocks off showing off his wife's hot bod?
M30USA Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 There's a couple of women on my FB friends list that kind of over do it when posting pics of themselves in bikinis , naughty negligees', etc. I don't mind it once in a while, but recently, this one posts a "good morning it's 'hump'day" (word with double meaning there, lol)...and a picture of her facing the ocean and of course her butt to the camera. Sometimes she'd have pics of herself posing at poolside and even does amateur modeling. She's a bank teller and another I know of, believe it or not...is a telemarketer. lol What's ironic is you hardly EVER see the husbands in the pictures...that's the scary part, but occasionally you'd see him subtlety pipe in a meek comment on one of her photos, "I love you honey!" Sometimes I wonder if this is the sign of the downward slope to marriage, or the husband gets his rocks off showing off his wife's hot bod? Irc, a little advice: You're not going to be received well on this forum with comments like that. I have learned from experience. People here hate any and all generalizing, especially if it's negative and especially if it's regarding women. 1
pteromom Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 Sometimes I wonder if this is the sign of the downward slope to marriage, or the husband gets his rocks off showing off his wife's hot bod? Usually, it is a woman just wanting validation of her looks. Most of the time, there is no ill intention behind it. Sometimes, the husband has a hand in it and, as you say, "gets his rocks off".
GorillaTheater Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 For my part, all I know is that if that was my wife, I'd shut that sh*t down, pronto. Smells a little too much like an Ashleigh Madison advert for my tastes, and I don't share. 4
aussietigerwolf Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 I'd be worried about that sort of behaviour... I know my bf likes my "hot bod" but he'd also have a massive issue if I started doing that.
karnak Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 I also asked myself that question several times. Specially because I know plenty of women who indulge into that kind of profile you're writing about. Mostly photos of themselves (some of them quite "sensual", to say the least), hardly any photo of them with their husbands. Sometimes a photo of their kids or their friends. Some time ago I think I got the answer to that question. I discovered that some of the women who had these sort of profiles had been involved in affairs. Primarily, I'd say that these kind of FB profiles aren't signs that these women are cheaters or anything of the sort. But I'm mighty certain that it's a sign that these women feel themselves in lousy marriages and want to create a facade for the masses or (subconsciously), most likely, alert the world that they need a way out.
Thegameoflife Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Narcissists! Facebook is a mirror and a platform for all to see. Another reason why I don't use it. 6
M30USA Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Narcissists! Facebook is a mirror and a platform for all to see. Another reason why I don't use it. Their original name was NarcissistBook but it didn't sell to well so they changed it to FaceBook.
Author irc333 Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 (edited) Yeah, one that I know of is a teaching assistant at a local school..surprised she hasn't gotten fired over it. I also asked myself that question several times. Specially because I know plenty of women who indulge into that kind of profile you're writing about. Mostly photos of themselves (some of them quite "sensual", to say the least), hardly any photo of them with their husbands. Sometimes a photo of their kids or their friends. Some time ago I think I got the answer to that question. I discovered that some of the women who had these sort of profiles had been involved in affairs. Primarily, I'd say that these kind of FB profiles aren't signs that these women are cheaters or anything of the sort. But I'm mighty certain that it's a sign that these women feel themselves in lousy marriages and want to create a facade for the masses or (subconsciously), most likely, alert the world that they need a way out. I'd be worried about that sort of behaviour... I know my bf likes my "hot bod" but he'd also have a massive issue if I started doing that. Yeah, there's a nother woman I know, married, apparently she's started a "Lingerie business" but she's using herself and not stock models of photos that she could be using to advertise her product. I dunno, I just wouldn't want my wife doing that sort of thing. "If you're going to go into the lingerie business, honey, save it for the professionals and only advertise your product to me." ;-) Mostly photos of themselves (some of them quite "sensual", to say the least), hardly any photo of them with their husbands. Sometimes a photo of their kids or their friends. Yeah, I know....I often wonder where the husband went in those pictures....sometimes you have to dig deep to find "the other half" lol Sometimes you forget they're married. LOL Edited August 15, 2013 by irc333
M30USA Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Yeah, I know....I often wonder where the husband went in those pictures....sometimes you have to dig deep to find "the other half" lol Their husbands are working offshore on an oil rig or underground in a mineshaft making money so they can sit at home and post those pictures.
hoping2heal Posted August 16, 2013 Posted August 16, 2013 The women sound superficial. I'd be hell of embarassed putting those kind of photos online for all to see..whether I looked amazing or not! The worst case scenario I have ever witnessed first hand in my life..a woman put a photo of her clit piercing on her facebook. I mean nothing was muted out and I don't know if it was accidental or what..but she was a clerk at the local Lowe's (and this is NOT a big town!!) but I could have died from the second-hand embarrassment!! I only saw it because she was on the friends list of one of my friends who commented. FB took the photo down fairly quick but come on?! I knew a guy who loved to flaunt his wife. She was very pretty, great body, etc. He completely treated her like a piece of furniture and she obliged this. To him, having such a beautiful woman for a wife validated that he was really something special. Believe me, he wasn't. He wasn't bad looking but he was still only a cut above average at best and his intelligence level? Please, I could dance circles around him all day. His wife was a really sweet girl though and I pittied her. Maybe some men feel the same way; like showing off having a really sexy woman interested in them means they have something special. 1
Decimated Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 These women that do this are fishing for validation/compliments and attention from other men. This is not a good sign. They are putting themselves out there for a reason. I think it becomes an addiction. The addictive part about this is the attention and compliments...validation to back fill there low self esteem. My XWW started posting lots of pictures of herself on Fakebook. She was always clothed but with ample cleavage showing. She attracted the attention of other men my doing this. One happened to be an old school friend and within a few short weeks...she was cheating. Yes we are now divorced. My compliments to her were discounted because, in her words..."You have to say things like that, your my husband" As if they were somehow disingenuous. In her messed up mind I had something to gain by showing her attention. Apparently, POSOM didn't? 1
smoky eyes Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I think a lot of women are brought up believing that looks is what they bring to the table. When they have hot bodies and they feel like that and technology is so readily available, they end up posting pictures on facebook. It doesn't mean they're bad people, most of them are probably just insecure/bored with their lives.
random_guy Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 They might have a cuckholding fetish; those are getting more common these days
tbf Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Can't decide why threads like this make me want to post up bikini and lingerie shots. 3
karnak Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 They might have a cuckholding fetish; those are getting more common these days Yup. Many of these women are exhibitionists. And as people have stated, they're looking for validation. And, most of the times, something else as well. I notice that many women, as they get older, begin to expose more of themselves and loose many inhibitions, including in sexual terms. Cuckolding their husbands and "slut" fetish are things which are getting more common in fact. I knew a lot of girls who were quite prude and shy in their 20's. Now that they're in their mid-30's they're getting way more adventurous. Most of them seem to discard their old romantic view of life and relationships in favour of a more pragmatic approach towards sex - in and out of the relationship. 1
smoky eyes Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Yup. Many of these women are exhibitionists. And as people have stated, they're looking for validation. And, most of the times, something else as well. I notice that many women, as they get older, begin to expose more of themselves and loose many inhibitions, including in sexual terms. Cuckolding their husbands and "slut" fetish are things which are getting more common in fact. I knew a lot of girls who were quite prude and shy in their 20's. Now that they're in their mid-30's they're getting way more adventurous. Most of them seem to discard their old romantic view of life and relationships in favour of a more pragmatic approach towards sex - in and out of the relationship. Way to be a chauvenist. Another interpretation (but obviously men can only think of things from a men's point of view) is that in their 30s they feel more comfortable, both with their bodies and who they are, and realize that a bit of skin does NOT make them a slut. There are also different types of women. Some flaunt their bodies because they're insecure and need approval from men, some because they're over that and sex-positive. It doesn't automatically mean they'll cheat on their partner.
So happy together Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I know that as I've become older I'm less afraid to show a little skin. I wear lower cut blouses etc. but I def. don't go around shoving my a$$ into camera shots. I guess the diff is I wear lower cut stuff because my bf likes it, not for the crowd, or for people to run up and tell me I am sexy, beautiful, etc. I do it for him. Maybe they just realized the'll never be younger, prettier or thinner than right this second and are living it up? 1
karnak Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Way to be a chauvenist. Another interpretation (but obviously men can only think of things from a men's point of view) is that in their 30s they feel more comfortable, both with their bodies and who they are, and realize that a bit of skin does NOT make them a slut. There are also different types of women. Some flaunt their bodies because they're insecure and need approval from men, some because they're over that and sex-positive. It doesn't automatically mean they'll cheat on their partner. You don't know jack-**** about me or my personality. And you don't know how I treat women, so you should refrain from calling me a chauvinist. I never wrote that all women who like to expose their bodies cheat on their partners. And yes! Many women who expose themselves on FB do so in order to attract sex partners.
KathyM Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Some people are insecure, and they think validation from their spouse is not enough for them.
smoky eyes Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 You don't know jack-**** about me or my personality. And you don't know how I treat women, so you should refrain from calling me a chauvinist. I never wrote that all women who like to expose their bodies cheat on their partners. And yes! Many women who expose themselves on FB do so in order to attract sex partners. True, I can only judge you on what you write, and you come off sounding judgmental and chauvinistic. Sorry if that's not the case.
karnak Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 True, I can only judge you on what you write, and you come off sounding judgmental and chauvinistic. Sorry if that's not the case. Every human being has their own definition of Right/Wrong - Good/Bad. It's part of human nature and it's what allows us to make choices in life and live according to them. The fact that you labeled me as a chauvinist proves that you're judgemental too.
smoky eyes Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Every human being has their own definition of Right/Wrong - Good/Bad. It's part of human nature and it's what allows us to make choices in life and live according to them. The fact that you labeled me as a chauvinist proves that you're judgemental too. I'm just tired of the word "slut" being thrown around on women who are either just insecure, or doing their own thing.
GorillaTheater Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Can't decide why threads like this make me want to post up bikini and lingerie shots. Because you're even more contrary than I am? 1
tbf Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Because you're even more contrary than I am?What's wrong with being a contrarian? 1
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