Girlfriend says she wants to be friends

[Jonson]

I've been seeing this girl for a few months it started quick she was very attracted to me and there was alot of sex but alot of kissing and hugging felt like there more to it than just sex.

 

I had been getting mixed signals lately

 

But she became distant last week and she said she thought it was all about sex.

 

I just seen her tonite and we went on a date it was good and she was friendly, she wanted to know how I felt about her so I told her I cared alot for her and wanted to hang out or date more, when I told her my true feelings she got all clingy and held my hand and she hugged me close and she kissed me. It felt like she cared that I shared my thoughts.

 

She has told me she so into me and can't stop thinking about and lves being with with me and feels safe with me.

 

She said she has feelings for me and wants to be friends to start?

 

I'm kinda confused as we had something and was really good now she has become a bit distant. She did say she has alot going on though.

 

I don't know if she wants a relationship or not, it sure seemed like it at first

she did. I really like her alot and we get along so well

 

Do I just go with the flow now and be her friend?

[Treasa]

Go with the flow, date other girls, let her know that you're dating other girls if you two are dating.

[Jonson]

Should I bother calling her anymore though? I really like her alot

[CptSaveAho]

Go with the flow, date other girls, let her know that you're dating other girls if you two are dating.

 

Go with the flow, tell her youre dating other girls? Jesus ... stab me now

 

Rule #1 of dating, dont ever listen to women giving dating advice

 

Rule #2 of dating, dont ever accept being "friends" with a girl you are dating/interested in dating

 

Back off, honestly its probably not going to work out between you two, you probably might want to be looking at other options, if she jumped quickly into sex, probably some sort of whirlwind romance/rebound