crispywat Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 I have an issue, i am mad about a girl i know, we met ages ago but never really spoke then all of a sudden with the help of Facebook we got on and swapped numbers. This was about 4 months ago and we taked and talked, then i found out she had a BF. I went away on hols and she was over there and spent the time texting me, and then with her BF seeing me, more or less anytime she could, obviously nothing was going on. She went home eventually and i was still away for 4 more days but we text alot. Since returning i found out her BF isnt all it seems and he is actually married with kids, he shows ni signs of leaving his wife for her. BUT he pays this girl for gifts clothes and treats her like a princess, i think thats why she is still with him (she calls him her BF but how can she) Anyway i really like her nad fallen for her, my mates say i should stay away.....we basically talk 24/7 via text or in person but nothing has happened even though we meet up often (without her bf obviosuly) she says she likes me and says im so funny which she likes....but why isnt she making a move or showing she is interested, she says most nights she not happy with her life.....i just dunno what to do, i like her and want more then friends
TB Rhine Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 Either she's waiting for him to leave his wife (won't happen), or she's a sugar baby, in which case you can prepare to start picking up the tab yourself if and when she kicks this other guy to the curb. Feel free to pursue her for casual dating purposes if you must, but I'd wait a bit before getting too serious with her - and for God's sake, don't start paying her rent, or co-sign a loan for her, or get yourself into any sort of binding agreement involving her and money, until you've known her a good long while and she's shown more character than she has so far. Food for thought.
Author crispywat Posted August 14, 2013 Author Posted August 14, 2013 Either she's waiting for him to leave his wife (won't happen), or she's a sugar baby, in which case you can prepare to start picking up the tab yourself if and when she kicks this other guy to the curb. Feel free to pursue her for casual dating purposes if you must, but I'd wait a bit before getting too serious with her - and for God's sake, don't start paying her rent, or co-sign a loan for her, or get yourself into any sort of binding agreement involving her and money, until you've known her a good long while and she's shown more character than she has so far. Food for thought. I dont get the gay comment....but moving on....i have considered it myself the sugar baby thing, as i think she is only seeing him due to his commitment to her financially. I have no means to pay her bills or anything and wont enter into anything like that. I just wish things were different. I do believe i shouldnt really get involved with someone that is willing to home wreck anyway, but cant help who you fall for. She doesnt want me anyway it seems , she not long asked me if i can pick up a bday present for this man!
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