Emma1234 Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 Just looking for some advice as to how people think I should be like when I see my ex? It's inevitable as we are both going back to uni soon and have the same friendship group. Do I ignore him, act happy, confident etc. I just don't know! Thanks, any advice is desperately needed.
Author Emma1234 Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 Do you want him back>? Nope, definitely not. I just don't want this contact to push me backwards.
cavalier99 Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Avoid him like the plague until your recovered! He is like No Foolin said..a serial killing stalker...until he isnt any more. Once your over it your guys could even be friends if you want but for now just get out of Dodge when you see him. Thats my thoughts. Cav
Author Emma1234 Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 Avoid him like the plague until your recovered! He is like No Foolin said..a serial killing stalker...until he isnt any more. Once your over it your guys could even be friends if you want but for now just get out of Dodge when you see him. Thats my thoughts. Cav Thank you I do feel very much over him now, not completely, but I'm at the stage where I have no desire to have him back. I initiated the break before the break up so it has been a quick process for me to recall all the things that were wrong. The problem is we have a small close knit social group and do things such as film nights etc on a regular basis. I don't want to miss them so I'm trying to see how I should react. I can't undying friendship as I don't find the person he has become appealing as a friend which is sad :/
cavalier99 Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Thank you I do feel very much over him now, not completely, but I'm at the stage where I have no desire to have him back. I initiated the break before the break up so it has been a quick process for me to recall all the things that were wrong. The problem is we have a small close knit social group and do things such as film nights etc on a regular basis. I don't want to miss them so I'm trying to see how I should react. I can't undying friendship as I don't find the person he has become appealing as a friend which is sad :/ Hmm. Thats great that your feeling better! I guess just be cordial. However, If you feel like your back tracking you might need to just make an extra effort to not be there when he is around or even get some new friends. A few more months of avoiding him could be worth the effort if it starts affecting you in any way. At the end of the day once your 100 percent over it you really wont need to ask how to act because you just wont care that much. Stay stong!
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