SinceYou'veBeenGone Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 My ex moved on to someone else. Chose some other girl over me. I don't know who it is. I'm the one that's left hurt from all this. Worst feeling of my life. I feel crazy for even wanting to know who the other girl is, but I have this curiosity who he chose over me is. It's stupid and none of my business. The rejection of it all is killing me. There really isn't much of a way for me to find out either. Any one else deal with this and feel pathetic for even thinking about?
Legatus Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 Curiosity if not controlled can be a real enemy.. There's no quick cure to that feeling I'm afraid. You could find a rebound but it won't help in the long run and it also depends on type of person you are. I personally thought rebound wouldn't be "me". It's good you have no way of finding out. You will only compare and try to find a reason why he left. The fact is - you will only be able to judge the exterior. And we all know how deceptive it may be..
chinacat sunflower Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 I myself am feeling the same exact way. The only thing that will help is focus on you. Keep yourself busy and time will heal. That's really the only advice I can give. Snooping around will only make you feel worse. I try to stay optimistic and think "what doesn't kill you will make you stronger". Hope you feel better soon..... 1
Replaced Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 Many of us here know what you mean. You do not want to go checking around to see who this person is, trust me it will only bring you hurt (speaking from experience). I'm still going through it three months after break-up (month after I stopped snooping). It will eventually lessen in time but it will be there with you for a while yet. Best thing to do is keep yourself occupied and away from anything that could allow you to check up on them. The feeling of being replaced and rejected for another is heart-wrenching. I feel for you and hope you make a speedy recovery. Chin-up After all you can only improve from this point forward. 1
Knoxpwns Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 My ex moved on to someone else. Chose some other girl over me. I don't know who it is. I'm the one that's left hurt from all this. Worst feeling of my life. I feel crazy for even wanting to know who the other girl is, but I have this curiosity who he chose over me is. It's stupid and none of my business. The rejection of it all is killing me. There really isn't much of a way for me to find out either. Any one else deal with this and feel pathetic for even thinking about? Hey Just so you know, I know the guy my girlfriend left me for. In fact, at one point I considered him a friend. I knew him longer than I knew her. He cut off contact with me, and he made a line-drive for my girlfriend for about 2 years. Eventually, he won. Knowing is no less painful than not knowing. 1
jesse93 Posted August 15, 2013 Posted August 15, 2013 Hey Just so you know, I know the guy my girlfriend left me for. In fact, at one point I considered him a friend. I knew him longer than I knew her. He cut off contact with me, and he made a line-drive for my girlfriend for about 2 years. Eventually, he won. Knowing is no less painful than not knowing. It always seems to end up being a friend of yours who goes after your ex.. I hate that, its almost like they're waiting for the day you two break up so he can have his chance. Anyway, Don't try to figure out who she is I promise you it will only hrurt more stay positive for yourself get out there and enjoy yourself as much as you can, that is what I've found to help me the most.. I started working out and it makes me feel great.. The pain is still there but if you distract your mind you'll feel better. 1
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