jlm22 Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 My bf and I broke up 6 months ago after 2 yrs. We recently had sex, it was better than it had ever been.the next day I txtd him n said "ty for lastnite, I love u. Have a great day" he responded with "ty too..love u too...", n now he is ignoring me. Why would he do that?
Misfortune Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 Because he didn't want to be rude? Just because he had sex with you and responded to your desperate text doesn't mean he wants to get back with you or even have you as a constant in his life. This. He's not your bf; he's your EX. It's important to know the difference so you don't get stack in the land of illusions. Tell him that he can't have you without a relationship. There's no reason for him to consider being exclusive with you again when he gets the same perks without the hassle. 1
Hoax Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 He sounds like a total jerk. Get away while you still can.
wendyjames2 Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 My bf and I broke up 6 months ago after 2 yrs. We recently had sex, it was better than it had ever been.the next day I txtd him n said "ty for lastnite, I love u. Have a great day" he responded with "ty too..love u too...", n now he is ignoring me. Why would he do that? I could understand why you are confused. I'd feel the same way if I were in your shoes. Sadly, people here are right. Get out while you still can. You do not deserve any of this. You've got to finally accept that the 2 year relationship has ended and time to look forward. Good luck t your search.
KatZee Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 If I'm right in my assumption here: you still love him and you are hoping to get back together with him. You thought by being intimate that you guys would fall back into a relationship. Unfortunately, you just had "ex-sex" and then you sent that text message which obviously muddled the waters even more. "Thank you, I love you." Thank you for what? Using you? And he's your ex. You shouldn't be acting like a girlfriend with all the proclamations of love. Ex-sex is very common and it's often a way for the guy to detach on a more gradual basis since cutting it off cold-turkey is more jarring for them. You haven't heard from him because he doesn't want to be with you, he just wanted to have sex with someone he's known and been comfortable with for years. There's a connection between you two, you know each others bodies and it's easier for him to scratch his sexual itch with you than some random. If you want him back on a real level I would cut the sex out. If you never hear from him again, you'll have your answer as to where you really stood.
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