Tropi_cali510 Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 First she wanted space, then she missed me, then I message her and deactivate my Facebook and try no contact, so she's texts me saying why I deactivate it and she can't respond to my message. So I text back if you have anything to say about my message call me if not whatever. Of course she doesn't call me. I just don't get it, why would she even text me in the first place ? No contact seems to be the best so I feel like I should leave it at that, I deleted her number a couple weeks ago deactivated my fb and blocked her but she doesn't know since it's deactivated. I really miss her and feel like in losing her but if she likes me shell come back right ? I mean she wanted the space in the first place and saying she missed me and stuff just hurt me more. I'm keeping busy and trying to better my life somedays I feel like I'm over here and then days like today I can't get her off my mind no matter what. Anybody have situations like this?
JDPT Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 It's pretty common for someone to want her space and miss you simultaneously both feelings correlate. It appears that she is the epitome of someone who has no clue what she wants. And it appears that someone here needs to have the last word and final decision. Based on what you've disclosed, your actions indicate that you will like to move on and if that's so remain strong and NC because she will contact you, I guarantee it. I'm not certain what specifically occured between you two but it looks like you are approaching the end rapidly. Be strong, solidify your thoughts and intentions and move forward full force.
Author Tropi_cali510 Posted August 14, 2013 Author Posted August 14, 2013 Just that she thought we were moving too fast, but she has school and is graduating in November and I got in a car accident and I can't drive my car for awhile because my car needs alot of work so she was always coming too see me so I'm trying my hardest to fix my car and then hopefully see where that takes me. No contact seems best but shell text me weird **** and throw me off...
JDPT Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 Of course she will text, you remain strong and post here about it, prior to replying if you have the urge of course. Don't allow your mind to play tricks on you, remain calm and in control. You will come out of this a new and improved you.
Author Tropi_cali510 Posted August 14, 2013 Author Posted August 14, 2013 Exactly what in taking from this situation, make myself a better person, stronger, learn from my mistakes, my door is open if she still likes me shell contact me if not its her loss, and my match is still out there.! Positive thinking thanks yall
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