jk1265 Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 Hey guys, I don't know if this is the right part of the forum but I wanted your advice on something. I liked this girl for a while and we shared mutual feelings but then she randomly told me one day that she couldn't do it anymore. At the time I wasn't able to understand why until she told me later things like personality incompatibility and chance of a future together weren't exactly high. I tried really hard to get over her but I find myself still unable to do so. I'm wondering if I should tell her or remain in this current situation I'm in, because it is really hard to continue interacting with her knowing that I still hold feelings for her. Now that I think about it, the whole process has been a blur and I don't know why I let so many things pass by unanswered for a long time. Any other advice?
Lei Ping Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 Hey guys, I don't know if this is the right part of the forum but I wanted your advice on something. I liked this girl for a while and we shared mutual feelings but then she randomly told me one day that she couldn't do it anymore. At the time I wasn't able to understand why until she told me later things like personality incompatibility and chance of a future together weren't exactly high. I tried really hard to get over her but I find myself still unable to do so. I'm wondering if I should tell her or remain in this current situation I'm in, because it is really hard to continue interacting with her knowing that I still hold feelings for her. Now that I think about it, the whole process has been a blur and I don't know why I let so many things pass by unanswered for a long time. Any other advice? Don't tell her, you'll just creep her out. Don't interact with her and do go out and find somebody to interact with who appreciates and respects you. One day she'll be so busy obsessing over the future that she'll wander in front of an oncoming bus. The longest lasting couples I know have conflicting and totally incompatible personalities. They just love each other. Your Girl is FOS. 1
Skyraider829 Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 Hey guys, I don't know if this is the right part of the forum but I wanted your advice on something. I liked this girl for a while and we shared mutual feelings but then she randomly told me one day that she couldn't do it anymore. At the time I wasn't able to understand why until she told me later things like personality incompatibility and chance of a future together weren't exactly high. I tried really hard to get over her but I find myself still unable to do so. I'm wondering if I should tell her or remain in this current situation I'm in, because it is really hard to continue interacting with her knowing that I still hold feelings for her. Now that I think about it, the whole process has been a blur and I don't know why I let so many things pass by unanswered for a long time. Any other advice? Just go with it - go with not telling her for now as there is uncertainty about the both of you and the fact that you described the whole process as a blur. Don't make yourself get over her. Be simple, just be her friend and act as such for now. If it comes up one day, and you both decide to talk about it, well then you can say what you want. 1
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