Guy Coming Back for More But What Does He Mean?

[napy666]

Back at the end of December 2012 I had messaged this friend of my best friend after she told me he was a Virgin and she thought bringing us both together since this guy wanted only a Virgin himself would be a good idea for us to date and chat.

 

So him and I talked and went on a few dates in January and February of this year including Valentine's Day. After Valentines I decided that him and I didn't have much in common and I didn't find him attractive and wanted to move on.

 

We both did but then a few weeks ago he texted me asking to talk to me so since I did not reply to his text he ended up calling me and we spoke on the phone. He ended up telling me that he wanted me to give him another chance and that he hadn't dated anyone like me before etc.

 

I told him I would think about it. After a week or so I texted him back telling him it would be best if we went our own ways in the end. He agreed after trying to convince me otherwise and we stopped talking. Then a short time later I texted him a brief comment about this DVD I bought and he texted me back, after that he texted me some more and I told him I did not want to talk to him anymore.

 

He stopped talking to me once more until now. I receive a text from this guy and this is the conversation that commenced.....

 

8:40PM John: I want to give you some money.

8:43PM Me: Wtf.

8:43PM John: I figure you can use the money for anything that will help you.

8:44PM Me: No thanks I don't need your money.

8:45PM John: Ok, how will you make money then?

8:46PM Me: I will find a job?

8:47PM John: No, from someone with money and who actually cares about your condition.

8:48PM Me: Huh.

8:49PM John: Me, Natalie Me.

8:50PM Me: No I don't need it or want it ok.

8:51PM John: I'm your best option, think about how soon another guy will respond to your needs? It could be a long time.

8:53PM Me: If I gota wait I gota wait oh well.

8:55PM John: There's a risk in waiting too long; you should have what a guy like me has to offer to you now and not later.

8:56PM Me: Why?

9:00PM John: Because you're not gona fulfill your dream to marry prince charming if you keep waiting.

9:00PM Me: Why do you think you're the guy for me?

9:03PM John: Because I'm the guy who will make you feel less miserable and instead make you feel that you are full of love.

9:06PM Me: And what makes you think I'm miserable?

9:15PM John: Nobody can get close to knowing deep inside and have a shell that you in and you only come out of that shell to show how submissive you really are.

9:16PM Me: Huh?

9:18PM John: You say you're submissive but instead you show passive aggressive so it's hard for many to relate to you.

9:19PM Me: What you mean passive aggressive?

9:22PM John: Procrastination, stubbornness, resentment, and denial; those make up what you are and I believe you want to love yourself.

9:23PM Me: What you mean love myself?

9:30PM John: Having humility and pride together; embracing those who still care about you no matter how ugly they may be on the inside.

9:32PM Me: I see.

9:39PM John: You have a good night; I haven't given up on you Natalie.

[CarrieT]

What a game-player! Why are you even engaging him????

 

Offering you money?!?! Tell him to just go away - do not acknowledge his texts AT ALL.

[stillafool]

To be honest I can't believe your responses to his statements. You never said more than 1 or 2 words.

[clia]

I thought you were looking for a guy who would financially support you? Looks to me like you've found him...why don't you like this guy? He seems into you.

[maersk]

Sweetie, you don't need this guy in your life. You'll do just fine without him. Change your number.

[napy666]

I'm not changing my number and I have told this guy before to leave me alone. And I don't find him attractive or us to have anything in common.

[danlightbulb]

... Then a short time later I texted him a brief comment about this DVD I bought and he texted me back, ...

 

Sorry but it seems you initiated this conversation by texting him about some meaningless thing, then you moan that you don't want to talk to him.

 

I don't think the guy is a game player, more that he seems desperate and perhaps with skewed ideas about what women really want.

 

If you don't want to talk to him, don't. If he contacts you again, tell him in straight terms that you will no longer reply to any messages of his and then stick to it. And don't then go and text him about some DVD you have bought.

[napy666]

Well him and I had attended the DVD's shooting thats why I texted him ha but either way I told him to leave me alone and plan to ignore him from now on.