SadnessMadness Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 Hey guys, just got out of a relationship and would like to know your guys thoughts. In school this girl liked me and started to really chase me hard so we ended up actually dating. So over the course of the relationship a few things happened. 1.She would stop calling me less and less 2.She would start asking if we rushed into things 3.She broke up with me yet still kept calling and saying i love you, and talked as if we were together yet we really weren't. 4.Started blaming her mother for pressuring her to leave me but early on in the relationship she vehemently expressed that she did not care about what her mother thought. Now the funny thing is that she asked to break up one day out of nowhere and have not ever given me a reason. I think she didn't have a reason other than G.I.G.S and wanted something new. Everything was going great from my understanding and when i asked for an explanation i get the ole' its something that's wrong with me and i don't feel like i deserve you lines... I feel lost and i have been completely heartbroken. We ended on a good note. I never disrespected her or treated her any different than how i want to be treated. Last thing we said was i love you and then agreed to just be friends, but from that day on she never has contacted me again. I begged and pleaded and always let her know i love her more than anything so she knows how i feel about her. Should i make contact with her after all of this time or just accept the fact that i was maybe just a rebound or that i may have gotten monkey barred until she was comfortable to move on to a new guy? I'm Really lost.
Ireallydontknow Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 Don't contact her! Especially if she isn't contacting you. You move on bro. I made the mistake of forcing myself into my exes life when she needed space. I might of done permanent damage. We could of made up by now. Who knows? I actually think I'll be happier once this all fades. 1
Recommended Posts