heartbroken . insight ladies?

[DownNtOut]

i poured my heart out to my exgirlfriend during the week (we broke up 1months back). and had been meeting for cinema and theatre about once a month since.

I told her i loved her and only wanted to be with her. She began to cry and told me another ex (from 4 years back) was looking to be with her again. She told me she needed time to think as she wasnt ready. i said that was ok that if i didnt hear from her, that i wud know.

she apoligised for sleeping with me 3 weeks ago. (It felt to me like it wasnt a '****' it was tender. she stayed in bed with me till lunchtime, holding each other and kissing. It really mixed me up.)

 

 

She text me yesterday and said she had gone to dinner with the other ex again and decided to try going out with him for a month to see how it goes.

 

she said she didnt want to leave me hanging on. told me i was brave to drive to her town and put myself out there. she said she loved me but only in a 'friendship' 'companionship' way.

 

 

i text her back and said, 'id miss her. and to take care of herself.'

 

i unfriended her on fb and deleted her number.

 

 

were her tears just pity?

 

any comments appreciated

 

i dont understand.. such a mess

[unexpectedlyhere]

Haven't you posted this somewhere already? Some of the sentences give me a really big sense of dejavu. Did I reply there?

[Echo000]

^ ya i could swear iv read this exact thing already.

[jenn78]

who cares if he posted it somewhere else... he wants some advice. Honestly dude, she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. Its best for you to let her go for now and better yourself. as much as you don't want to hear that and you want to know what will happen in the future... you don't know. I'm struggling with the same thing. Maybe she will come back in a few months and maybe she won't. Start living the single life again... you don't have to get a girlfriend but start talking to other girls and it will help you put those thoughts on the back burner.