Jscy Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 Hi. I have so much to say but I don't know where to start with.. Okay so we met online, he's korean and I'm Chinese. We started chatted through phone every night for around 1-3 hours. He would sing to me and we would talk really random stuffs till we're both tired. So recently, he had to move in to his school dorm as he is having his major exam on November. So he'll go to school in the afternoon and library till night. Our conversations are mainly "자기 안녕!" (Hi baby!) and "자기 잘자!" (Goodnight baby) and maybe a few I love you here and there and sometimes he will also remind me to endure with him till November. So the problem is, as our conversation don't even last for a minute, I'm afraid that his feelings for me will fade soon.. I did talk to him about it and all he ask me to was to "trust him" "endure with him" and "promise that he'll love me forever" I'm trying to but what if I did and I ended up getting cheated? I don't wanna end up like that because.. I'm going to Korea this December and we actually planned to meet. So if I ended up getting cheated, I'm afraid I won't even enjoy myself during the trip!!! On a side note, he did send me a few recordings of his singing and told me to listen till November.. I listen to them when I miss him or I can't sleep. Not sure if this is necessary but, I'm 19 and he's 27. Yes I know there is a little bit of age gap but urgh age doesn't matter right?! Okay that's basically all I want to say.. Advice please! I would really appreciate a lot.
keithkat Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 You must decide for yourself whether you could trust him or not. If you decide to trust him because you cannot deny yourself what you already feel, then be happy that no matter what happens you were brave enough to give love a chance to bloom. I think going to a different country should already be a happy and exciting thing, and meeting this guy is just a bonus. 1
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