gd1039 Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 After meeting a lot (but never enough) girls and getting some numbers I have finally found a girl that seems to have a high interest in me. We are going out for the first time Friday, but from talking in and out of class (same college) and I get the feeling she is very interested. Usually, I have to approach a girl and the whole time (leading to or after a date) I am wondering whether she is interested or not. As much as it suck I do kind of like the uncertainty, but I hate getting let down. Another thing is that I always say I am sick of being single. So now, here is this (potential) oportunity to start dating someone, and I don't feel as interested in the situation as I am when I don't know if the girl likes me or not. I have a lot in common with this girl, and before we started talking I saw her and said to myself I would like to go talk to her. I just feel different going in thinking she is very interested. I don't know if I am actually not interested, or if I am just nervous about dating again (its been a while since I have gotten more than a date or 2). I also feel like I am holding myself back from getting to excited about this situation since I don't know what to make of it. In my mind, this situation almost seems too easy, and I think that is what makes me feel unsure right now. I have gotten so used to having to pursuit girls that when something looks like it could be a sure thing shows up, I don't know how to respond. Ideas?
Merin Posted November 5, 2004 Posted November 5, 2004 Expect to have a great time on Friday with this girl.. it's just a date, and it doesn't mean she is going to be the ball and chain You're over thinking this situation.
mysticalstar Posted November 5, 2004 Posted November 5, 2004 I know how you are feeling!! I feel like the chase is always much more fun than the catch. Especially in the beginning. But it can still be a chase even after one date. You might think that this girl is very interested..and chances are she probably is, but sometimes after a few dates is when the chasing gets fun. Its just one date, and you will probably have a very good time. I have the problem a lot though after I have gone on a few dates and get the person attached, I don't like them anymore because like you said, its more fun to chase. But however, when the right person comes along, you wont want to chase them anymore. Maybe you will end up really liking this girl, or maybe you will just like her as a friend. Dont be afraid to go on a date, it isn't like you are getting married. If you don't like her, than you don't like her. You can't help your feelings. And other thing, maybe you don't want to or aren't ready to settle down. You will know when the right girl comes along, and until then, have fun and date! hope i helped ya out!
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