nomoreshallwepart Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Four months after I have been cheated on and left by the girl I considered by then to by the love of my I can tell you: it gets much, much better. (You can read the story of my break up here if you want to: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/391909-too-serious-relationship-she-got-back-her-ex http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/396443-what-new-bf-my-ex-mimicking-me http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/398291-getting-guilt-tripped-over-nc) It's been more than four months of total NC (two if you consider some remarks about her life by our common friends in one or two of the conversations we had as breaking NC). Plenty has changed. - I've started working out and running - lost almost 10 pounds and for the first time in my life I can say that I look really great. For about 6 weeks I've been doing some indoor climbing and love it - once again it's the first time I truly enjoy sport. - I changed my looks a bit. You know what's nice? Changing a profile picture on Facebook and getting likes from ALL of your ex's female friends. - I have received two really attractive academic scholarships and there are chances for the third one (I will find out in November/December if I managed to get it). - Started going out more and - surprise - met someone. We're taking it rather casually at the time but it's still too early to tell if it will stay that way or evolve into a 'serious' relationship. Nevertheless - plenty of good time and the best. sex. ever. And how does the life of my cheating ex gf looks like? Last time I heard she ****ed up her exam session (on purpose) and she has to study all through the summer holiday for her second term exams. In the immortal words of Robert Muldoon: clever girl... 1
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