Butterflying Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 My ex-boyfriend & I broke up a little over a year ago due to distance & insecurities resulting from that. We ended on great terms, made a public statement for our friends so they didn't have to choose sides. Everyone wished us the best in our individual interest. We have dated other people. Although our communication with each other has been sporadic, an email or text message every few months. We haven't spoken over the phone or seen each other since the break up. Recently he sent an email asking how I'm doing. He recently vacationed at his parents home near the beach. They ask about me all the time. Everyone misses me including him. The next time he is in my city he would like to see me. He loves me. Telling me he loves me was a huge thing because he has never done that before. We only dated long distance for a year before breaking up. Feelings were strong. But love is more serious. Never the less I replied by letting him know a few things going on in my life & I do love him too. Then three weeks went by without a word. After admitting such deep feelings expected some more communication. Out of curiosity I went on Facebook to check the page of two women I know he has been dating since our split. One of them deleted her page. The other one recently changed her profile picture to one of him & her together. Then yesterday she posted a message about selling all the furniture in her apartment by the end of this month. It appears she is moving. One can only assume she is moving in with him. So I'm uncertain rather I should expect him to see him when he is in town. Why would he finally tell me he loves me if he's moving another woman into his home? Why hasn't he told me they are serious now? His Facebook page still has pictures of he & I together after all this time. He has never posted pictures of him & any other women. What should I think? Until he contacts me again I can't ask him anything. Who knows, maybe he will never contact me again. But we have been cordial all this time. Why would he lie to me? Why would he never speak to me again?
Pookie5 Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 wow. i'm sorry your in this position. This guy seems like he likes you but likes other girls too and can't make up his mind. Personally speaking, i cannot see the girls Facebook profile but maybe the girl is moving some place new? Does it have to be with him? but just to be prepared for the worst, lets assume its with him. personally speaking, if you said i love you too.. the person should reply within 3 weeks. I think he likes knowing your there and that if he needs you he can always come back to you. I don't think you should contact him. You should wait till that girl posts more stuff on Facebook to get an idea of the sitatuation. and if he doesn't reply.. that's means there's something else waiting for you.
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