Author emisthename Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 Thanks, forgive me For being so negative , I just feel surrounded by darkness And I can't see a light to get me through... I am unsure if life without her is worth it. But I don't quit so will keep chugging. I wish I could rewind time
JDPT Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 I think your statement should go "I wish I could fast-forward time" but that will do you no good, there would be no learning from this. It's inevitable and imperative that you go through this hard time, one day all this pain will make sense. And you will look back and remember and view it as a learning experience and perhaps chuckle. You are at the starting line of your recovery journey, make the best of it.
BC1980 Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 It's okay. I sent some dumb texts after my breakup that I feel really foolish about now. Just keep moving forward.
Chi townD Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 I agree, I actually sent a reply it went like this: It feels like ****, I try my hardest to forget you but it seems ****ing impossible. I'm not living life the way I want only cause I wanted to live my life with you.. I did get the raw end of the deal so to speak, I actually believed you loved me and never expected that msg you sent, so tbh it ripped My heart to bits, plus not seeing you has taken my soul. Anyways, you know where I am... I never lied when I told you I loved you. What you should texted was " AWWW...that's sweet. Now, F*CK OFF! *kisses* BYE!" 1
Author emisthename Posted August 13, 2013 Author Posted August 13, 2013 Ok so I listened to what you all had to say and I felt I lost control, so I called her she was her normal self, I asked how she was she she said not really good. I went, then after speaking to her I sent her this msg. " thanks for taking my call, was good for me to talk to you so I can finally move on and begin to heal. Take care" That will be the last communication she gets from me, and I feel much better for getting it off my chest.
Sugarkane Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 Text isn't good enough. I hate it when dumpers communicate through lazy communication and say some condescending message. 5
forgetmenot75 Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 Ok besides ONE txt slip up that I made on Thursday last week, there has been NC. Until now, today would be two weeks since she dropped me for no apprent reason... I receive this sms at 2am: hey ___, hope things been goin gd 4u. Thanx for tellin me tht I still have ur support if needed n everything else you had to say it means a lot. I can't start to image how it must feel for you. I try n tell myself tht ur ok n a strong women, tht ur living life the way u want. Only good comes from you ____. You have a Big heart n a lot of love to give to whoever is around u, I am truly sori tht it has ended, nd u got the raw end of the deal. I do know, your a surviver! And will get on with it. Keep intouch.x WTF!! I just cry over and over again.. It hurts so bad!! What does this mean? And what do I do? I still love her! It means she's sorry for you, she feels guilty for letting you down, and she wishes you the best with the next person you have a relationship. Nothing more, nothing less. Move on, she has no romantic feelings whatsoever for you. I know it hurts, but the sooner you realize this, the better for you. 1
Author emisthename Posted August 13, 2013 Author Posted August 13, 2013 I am moving on! Don't need her Or her dumb drama and games! I am feeling determined 1
Simon Phoenix Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 I am moving on! Don't need her Or her dumb drama and games! I am feeling determined Then please stop finding excuses to contact her.
lovesucks76 Posted August 13, 2013 Posted August 13, 2013 I would have been pissed off if I had receive a text like that. It's condescending if nothing else...Maybe it would have bee more effective to tell her to F**K herself! Instead you fed her with your feelings and stuff....she doesn't deserve anything from you at this time. Nothing!! Indifference is the main goal dude. 1
Author emisthename Posted August 14, 2013 Author Posted August 14, 2013 Thanks guys I have stopped contact and won't be contacting her, next time if there is, I will post here for support first rather then let my emotions get the better of me!
Tropi_cali510 Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 damn morning are so hard, i stay dreaming about this girl and i check my phone waiting for he rtext, but i tell myself be a better person than yesterday, i guess it just takes time, i miss her like crazy, shes always on my mind, and damn, no contact is probably the best thing for us right now 1
lovesucks76 Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 damn morning are so hard, i stay dreaming about this girl and i check my phone waiting for he rtext, but i tell myself be a better person than yesterday, i guess it just takes time, i miss her like crazy, shes always on my mind, and damn, no contact is probably the best thing for us right now It has been 10 days for me and I check my phone first thing when I get up and last thing before I go to bed. It' pathetic, I know and wouldn't respond but I secretly hope to receive a text or a call. It sucks man! it really does. Hang in there and try to keep busy...it has been working for me. First 3 days were horrible. Just horrible! 1
JDPT Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 It's pretty common to feel the way, every time my phone use to ding I used to grab it immediately to see if it was her. After a while I think I just became tired of hoping it was here and when my phone goes off I no longer automatically assume or hope is her. I recall getting excited a few weeks ago when she looked at my linkedin profile, then realize that it really didn't mean anything that she looked at it, I felt silly. Be patient with yourself, you can't rush this process, no easy way out. We must go through the grunt work to come out successful.
Author emisthename Posted August 15, 2013 Author Posted August 15, 2013 Yay some people who empathise, ain't it hard. I get the checking your phone and waiting ect, but ill tell you what... That has stopped, I no longer expect it to be her or wait for her txt or call, I know it will come one day but ill deal with that then, for now I do not care in the slightest... Yay! I'm moving forward new job Monday so do t have the time to give a damn bout her skanking ass!!! Keep strong guys, start to think how much better we are then this and what we actually deserve... If she don't want to be there then we don't want her near us, waste of our good love which we can share with someone else who will totes dig it!!!! Yes I just said "totes" lol!! Be strong my people, go forth and multiply!!! Haha
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