TrblinMN Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Before I get the usual responses of "She's your ex, move on", or "why do you care, she's your ex", I have a question to ask that can that I would like everyone's thoughts on. Hopefully it can preserve any normal thoughts and feelings because I have been questioning my true beliefs and actions and it's frustrating to cope with it all. Long story short, my ex gf broke up with me five months ago. It was our second time around. She met someone new within a couple of weeks and he lives in a different state. I just found out last week that she got engaged and will be moving to said other state. This would be her second marriage (divorced 2 years ago), why is there a need to get engaged so quickly?
Balzac Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Biological clock. She wants to have a wedding. She likes diamond solitaires. Take a pick.
Author TrblinMN Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 I guess I will never know. It's hard not to take it personally but it's tough not to. She has been jumping from relationship to relationship (me twice) since her divorce 2 years ago, never taking a breather... It shouldn't surprise me but I just don't understand. And I hate it that I got caught in the middle of it. I'm usually so good at protecting myself from women like this.
Balzac Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 We are all fallable. At some point you became aware of her history and still took the risk. Forgive yourself and move on.
Author TrblinMN Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 I'm trying to forgive and move on but I can't seem to get this all worked out in my head. I try to forget but I can't. I know I shouldn't care anymore but I can't help thinking over and over what happened. I don't know if she met this guy before she broke up with me. He lives in a different state so it would be tough to say she did. But if she just met him after our breakup, and him living in a different state, how can you really get to know somebody that much in 4 months, living in different states, and say you've met your soulmate and to move to a different state for him. This doesn't seem healthy or normal....
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