dollyface Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 So, about eight months ago I began a relationship with this guy. He was in a five year off and on relationship with a girl who constantly cheated on him before that. The first couple of months in our relationship were amazing! We had got in a lot of fights after that, we would always break up for like a few weeks then get back together. We were always with each other.. two months ago he left on a trip with his friends to play music. During that time, he dumped me. He made it seem like I dumped him. We were in a never ending fight. He accused me of cheating, told me I'm out of control, told me he can't handle relationships. When he came back from this trip we hooked up. He accused me of giving him an STD, but he had a UTI from drinking too much. He never apologized. We then hooked up again. Once again, he accused me of giving him an STD. He never got one.. Last night I saw him and he kept hugging me... Like A LOT. He told me not so long ago when we got in a fight that he doesn't love me anymore and that everything was my fault. But, last night.. He would not stop coming closer to me and hugging me. I'm completely lost. I really am.. someone help me understand this situation.. I was thinking because of the last girl he was with, it made him have relationship issues. I'm not sure anymore..
Miss_raptor Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Run as fast as you can in the opposite direction of him. You do not need to put up with his manipulation. Don't try to fix his issues, because you can't.
Adele0908 Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 He sounds like a very toxic person. He was probably the one sleeping around. I would even describe him as emotionally abusive. Definitely a damaged man. Walk away and never look back, before he destroys what's left of your self esteem.
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