runforafall Posted August 11, 2013 Share Posted August 11, 2013 Slightly confusing situation I haven't experienced before. Date (from dating site) number 1: Went extremely well, and we ended out partying until the early hours eating each others' faces off for most of the latter part of the night. She then left the next day for a 2-week hol in Cuba and we agreed to catch up when she returned. When she got back she literally headed straight to a festival for 5 days or so so we agreed to meet the day after she got back, with regular banter through SMS over those 5 days. Date number 2: Dinner followed by some drinks last Tuesday, though this was a little more restrained with respect to alcohol consumption. Banter throughout the date was good, and the vibes were positive. I kissed her at the place we went to for drinks, then we walked to the station where we kissed goodbye and she seemed keen to agree to meeting again a few days later (this afternoon) for a picnic, though left the time vague as she has a friend staying for the weekend and didnt know what time she'd be leaving. Again we kept in touch with an SMS or two a day until yesterday when she didn't reply to a message. I followed up this morning with an SMS asking if she had any idea what time she wanted to meet and a couple of hours later she responded with something along the lines of "Sorry I didn't reply yesterday, the day disappeared, and sorry to mess you around but even though I've enjoyed dates I dont know if I see this going anywhere". I guess I can't be angry as we've only been on a couple of dates and I realise that in a romantic setting, feelings aren't always mutual, but I'll admit to being really surprised she would seem so enthusiastic before, and the opposite just a few days later. Thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
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