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Interested in a girl...how should I play this?


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I recently relocated to a new place. And for the first time since my ex there is a girl that I am REALLY interested in. About her...she owns her own restaurant and sometimes out there working. From what I gathered she is very cute and sweet. I would love to ask her out but there are always guys hitting on her so I just don't want to be another one of those and would like to do something different. I would like to get to know her but her workplace is the only place that I ever see her. If I can meet her outside of her work that'd be perfect. I would like to hear what you guys would do or have done in this situation. Thanks. :confused:

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Go someplace she is, strike up a conversation, and after talking to her on that one or perhaps another occasion, ask her out.

 

She will either politely decline or agree to go out with you.

 

I'll say yes if I am interested in the guy and he seems nice enough; he does not have to be hot at all, just an average looking dude who came across like a nice guy I'd agree to meet up with.

 

However, I would need to get a better feel about a guy before agreeing to a date; unless they were super hot, frankly, I would actually need to talk more to them before just agreeing to go on a date with them.

 

Why not go into her restaurant to eat with some friends.

 

I would definitely give a guy a shot if he seemed to be smiling and laughing with his friends and I could feel that he seemed like a nice guy!

 

It is a hard one, but it is the same for us girls! No guy will agree to just date us unless they initially think we are very hot! With most people, they have to get to know someone before accepting a date from someone that asks.

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