montykatzy Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Me and my gf were together for about a year and a half. It was a pretty bumpy relationship, mainly because she wasn't a virgin, and I was, but we got through and it was great. About a month and a half ago, she broke up with me because she had had enough of me not trusting her (she did try to make things better, but it was still tough). It went straight to no contact, nothing. About a week or two later, she texted me saying she was upset and missed the times we had at X (we spent pretty much every day there). We talked for about a day, but that was it. Then, about 2/3 weeks ago, there was a party that she skipped for some silly reason (she didn't like her friend drinking (she loves to drink normally)) and I got reallly drunk. A mate of mine told me at the party that while me and her had had a massive fight, she joked with someone she knows I hate about having sex with him. Me being drunk as hell decided to send her really mean texts, and I woke up the next morning almost in tears to what I wrote. She told me to never talk to her again. I've known her for about 4 years now, and when we fought she'd say the same things then regret it a day later. After 2 weeks of not talking, a special event happened, which she knew about. I was assured that she would talk to me about it, but she didin't. The next day, I tried talking to her, and we talked about the relationship. She said that she didn't like being not trusted, and that she deserved my trust but never got it (she flirted a lot in front of me, and I was scared about what she did behind my back). She also said that I ruined any and all chances of getting back with her when I sent her those texts. She also said that she had no feelings for me whatsoever, and that she never wanted to be with me again. Basically, she's moving to a new college, about 20 minutes away from me, so it's not that bad. Me and her shared so many memories together, and she told me that I made her happier than anyone else. I met her family, and they were great. I just don't know what to do. I love her to pieces, and I thought that this was just something that would bug her, but would end in us being together again, as always. I don't want it to end between me and her, but she's telling me that never wants me in her life again. Her best friend also TEXTED (I find this to be important) that 'she loves me so much' (s and d are next to eachother on the keyboard, but makes quite the difference eh?) and I'm in complete shambles. Please help. Sorry for the wall of text, and thanks for reading.
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