along60years Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 I want to be over my ex so badly, but it still hurts so much. I can't seem to make myself forget all the memories and all the plans. I try to keep busy, but sometimes I just feel like I am drowning. It's been 6 months since he ended our nearly 7 year relationship. I just want to forget and I don't know how. And it hurts that no matter what he will never be there again and I miss him. I just wish I could wake up and have him erased from my memory. There are so many mistakes that haunt me and I moved away for a job after we had been living together for 4 years. It was such an incredible opportunity and I love my job, but everyday I regret leaving him behind. I don't know how to forgive myself. It just hurts. How long until the pain goes away?
Legatus Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 If someone invents memory wiper I think it would be a best-seller on this forum. Until then we all have to live with our memories, sometimes even regrets.. The pain goes away but it's also up to you when. You have to act on it. Try to see other ways to get over it. Not just an absolute "erase from memory", because it's impossible (I reckon for another 30-40 years : )). Start from forgiving yourself and you will feel better
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